Mistress160's Abode: ASK US!

ASK US!

Want to ask us a question, or want us to cover a particular topic in the BDSM For Beginners series?

I'm afraid we don't IM much because we live off the grid and chatting online tends to use up all our solar power! But you can contact us via Fetlife:

You'll also find Ms160 on Twitter. Oh, and we also now have a Formspring account:

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WARNING TO REGULAR READERS

A complaint about this blog has apparently been made to Blogger by carinastar regarding my Defining Vanilla post.

I hope Blogger will see the complaint for the spite it is and not bother with it. However all sex bloggers know Blogger's views these days. If Blogger cancels my account the BDSM For Beginners blog will also be lost. I will be particularly concerned for kinksters searching for the much used Emergency Self Aftercare post, if this occurs.

Aware Blogger would prefer us gone we've been working on finding another home. Mistress160.com and later bdsmforbeginners.com will be online soon, with each blog transferred intact. We've been with Blogger a long time and will be sorry to go, we hope Blogger will grant us time to make the transition ourselves and close things down here.

The main thing is don't panic if sol and I vanish here. We look forward to welcoming you at our new homes soon :)

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Mistress160's Abode:

Welcome to my abode, secure from all the world, where the most secret of desires may be explored in safety and privacy.

"Smart, funny and very wicked" Mistress160's "excellent" blog "offers education, sensuality, testimonials from subs + a wide array of [educational] resources suitable for everyone interested in BDSM (from connoisseur to novice)"

Looking for my BDSM For Beginners series? You can check out my educational blog here, while Kink Culture will keep you up to date with the fetish art / culture scene and my various articles.

I also have two private blogs, one focusing on more extreme play / edgeplay, and the other documenting our new D/s Retreat in the Northern Rivers region of NSW. Drop me a line if you would like access.

WANT TO CONTACT Ms160?
I look forward to hearing from you - you can also contact me via the private message system at Fetlife. I don't IM much these days due to time differences and the fact chatting takes up enormous amounts of my solar power!

"I remain amazed at the diversity you two exhibit! That blog had me thinking very nasty thoughts Ms160... sol is a lucky guy to have such a deliciously deviant Domme!"
billc393 - cc forum (Jan 2009)

WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT MISTRESS160?

Both Ms160 and sol were interviewed in 2011 by Remittance Girl as part of the Portraits of Kink project. You'll find Ms160's interview here and sol's here. We encourage other kinksters to take part in this exceptional project.

Ms160 was interviewed by Exploring Intimacy as part of the Twisted Tuesday Fetish Interview series. Check out the interview here.

She was also interviewed in early 2009 by The Chastity Interviews about her interests in T&D and chastity.

Her blog also features on Keyheld; chastity resources for lovers, an aggregate for blogs in which male chastity and orgasm denial are the main focus. If chastity is of interest you might like to take a look :)

Ms160 was invited to write about herself for AlexSuze.com's The Journey series:
1) A D/s Life: Becoming dominant
2) A D/s Life: Becoming Mistress 160

Her husband solipsist's story is told as part of the same series:
"Ambiguous Borderlands: the paradox of masochism"
Part One and Part Two

Ms160's blog received a great review from Adult Blog Hub. Check it out via this link:

New to BDSM? You are in the right place!

“If I was to direct any novice to a BDSM blog, I’d direct them to Mistress160...

"One seldom finds a blog that offers educational guides for people wanting to explore their kinky side, namely BDSM … Mistress160’s Abode offers education, sensuality, testimonials (from subs) and a wide array of resources suitable for everyone interested in BDSM (from connoisseur to novice).

"On the subject of information, Mistress160 has an array of "BDSM for Beginners" posts that discuss just about everything, from meeting like minded people to accessory selection [you will find a list of titles in the LABELS list below]. The resources that Mistress160 uses are extensive, and kudos to her…"
(for complete review see Dark Scribe, 3 March 2007)

"This is a particularly excellent blog for beginners to BDSM. In fact, Ms160 has a phenomenal series created especially for beginners with more information in one place than I’ve ever really seen. Good stuff folks. Give her a look"
Carrie Ann A View From the Floor "Blogs I Love"

"Just wanted to thank you for what you've done with your blog and with Fetish Lore ... you manage to present everything in a comfortable, matter-of-fact way that really helped [my wife] ... both sites have helped because they give us a nice touchstone, and a place to ask questions in a newbie friendly environment ... I don't know how often you hear this, but for these two "beginners," we wouldn't be half as on the ball without your blog"
Belisarius, Nov 2007 (quoted with permission)

Thanks for all you do for the promotion of what I think of as "good kink," and your love of us subbies. It means more than you know"
Quietlisten, Jan 2008 (quoted with permission)

"Mistress160 ... runs what is probably the best informational blog about BDSM in the entire region, and has been doing so for quite a while"
May may April 2008 Maybe Maimed But Never Harmed

"You've helped me overcome a choking fear of myself. I can think about all of the kinky ideas.. that I've dreamed about, without having an anxiety attack of worry"
copper 3 May 08

MS160's EDUCATIONAL PROGRAMS:

Ms160 offers real time workshops and retreats, as well as online educational programs open to all kinky orientations. You'll now find everything listed on the new BDSM Education page :)

"well thought out, well written, and highly valuable ... the class had a profound impact on me and my self-perception ... your blending of sexual imagery with commands during the lessons was exquisite" (QL)

"this course has shown me that it is possible to do things i otherwise would have never done ... you will always have a place in my heart" (t)

WHERE MISTRESS160 SPENDS TIME ONLINE:

MISTRESS160'S FORUMS

Dommes' Forum
Ms160 runs a free private, invitation only Dommes' Forum, where new Dommes are especially welcome. Drop Ms160 a line if you'd like to become part of this very special community.

Ms160's Student Forum
Past and present - and future, if you have been accepted for a popular booked up course - students are most welcome, of all kinky orientations as courses are open to everyone. Join the general discussion groups, meet other students taking your course in the private course groups, or chat with students and teachers in the attached chatrooms. Ms160 is there daily ... and several of her female dominant friends drop in now and then to keep the male subs students on their toes!

MISTRESS160'S GROUPS
Ms160 moderates special interest groups on several sites. They are all free to join.

On Fetlife:
Australia - NSW North Coast
(we hold regular munches, come and join us)
Outdoor Play
(pursuit and capture / takedown / outdoor bondage, animal play etc)
Club FEM - NSW
(want to be involved in local Femdom activities?)
Subdrop Clinic
(you don't need to be alone while experiencing drop!)
the chase addicted to the hunt
(for those who enjoy hunting humans ... and being hunted)

On MyDungeonSpace:
Forced Feminization
(where she runs her infamous cross dressing photo contests)
Erotic Sexual Denial
Erotic Humiliation
The Hunt

On KinkySpace:
Erotic Humiliation
Erotic Sexual Denial
Cross Dressing and Forced Feminization

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT MISTRESS160

"some of the best CBT photos on the net" (badtudes 6.07)"you ... have the most entertaining and stimulating pictures" (m4cruelwoman 6.07)"She does have a way with a camera, our Mistress 160"(Lady Z 20.6.07)"you are an absolutely wonderful writer....makes me think a little about potentially submitting to a scene with a female Mistress" (littlewolfgirl 18.6.07)"You are so kind and a joy to have as a friend" (mont202 9.05.07) " [Ms 160's Babydoll contest] is the most unusual competition we’ve come across so far in the adult blogging world "(AdultBlogHub 7.05.07)"Mistress 160's Abode is a wealth of information, very well written and a delight to read" (subservire 6.05.07) "You are so good at organizing things and making a wonderful event to participate in"( (Nikita 4.05.07)"congratulations on a very well done, and very fun competition Mistress" (veritas 4.05.07) "Well done with posting the results - fantastic prose and reflects the deliberation so well. Thank you for inviting me to judge, it really was the highlight of the week!" (Alice 3.05.07) "['BDSM for Beginners' are] the sort of posts that we see too little of on blogs. Real thoughtful, through-provoking, intelligent writing ... a wonderful piece of writing." (alex 15.4.07) " I really like your writing and love your style, you have class, you're open, and your confidence shows thru' (Bonnie 12.03.07) "Your descriptions are excellent, I felt like I was watching you training him" (alex 11.3-07) "Your work with clothespins is nothing short of art, Mistress" (veritas 8.03.07 ) "If I was to direct any novice to a BDSM blog, I’d direct them to Mistress 160. ... Mistress 160’s Abode offers education, sensuality, testimonials (from subs) and a wide array of resources that’s suitable for everyone interested in BDSM (from connoisseur to novice) [and] the author isn’t afraid to use humor ... " (Dark Scribe, Adult Blog Hub 1.03.07) "You like wearing art and use yourself as a canvas .. perhaps your style is reflected in your play as well " (Nikita 1.03.07) "fascinating [the subject of my KINKY STYLE group on MDS]" (HB from freaks4fetish 22.02.07) "beautiful [post]" (Caitriona 19.02.07) "FABULOUS, graphic [post] i can smell the roses, i can almost feel their touch" (DaisyAnne 17.02.07) "I only wish there were a few more people like you who are willing to assist rather than abuse ... i hope Your subs realise their fortune in being collared by You" (slave4all 16.2.07) "Your blog turned out great today Mistress ... happy i could help and be part of it ... even if i do turn as red as Your corset every time i see those pix" (veritas 16.02.07)"Can't tell You how nice it is to find a resource such as this ... Thank You, Mistress 160 for taking the time and effort to help educate, not only newbies, but perhaps some of those "experienced" individuals as well" (slutpuppy 25.01.07)"Lovely [CBT] work... very well done" ( MasterMonos 03.01.07) "Delightful to read. I wish others ... had your talent for description and expression" (Eryn 2.01.07)"The most amazing planning I can recall hearing of in D/s [play]" (Richard Evans Lee 20.12.06) "[Mistress160's] smart, funny and very wicked" (Richard Evans Lee 28.12.06)

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A little about me...

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WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT MISTRESS160?

New to BDSM? You are in the right place!

What's Gone Before:

solipsist

WHAT WE'VE BEEN TALKING ABOUT OVER THE YEARS ["BDSM For Beginners" series all listed under BDSM]

Any dominant women from Western Australia out there? We need you!

BDSM / FETISH / KINK PODCASTS - WELL WORTH A LISTEN :)

Bloggers who's writings inspire me

Blogs by Dominants, Tops, Switches, and others who offer good advice

Blogs by switches ... just set this up, would love your help adding links here

Blogs by D/s + M/s couples and poly families ... a glimpse of the way others make it work

Blogs by submissives, slaves, bottoms etc

BDSM - and other topics - Resources (you'll find a longer list on my BDSM For Beginners blog)

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BDSM AND D/S BOOKS

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