Monday, August 29, 2011

Chastity update: Jail Bird



Regular readers will know chastity is an important part of our D/s relationship, and that we are always interesting in trying new chastity devices for sol. We've tried silicone (Bon4 review here) and plastic (CB6000) and metal (The Fort) with varying results. If you'd like more details, you'll find a list of posts relating to our chastity explorations here.

Thanks to our tax return we were able to purchase another chastity device for sol. We thought we'd give metal another go, but in a less solid style that The Fort. So we selected one from Mature Metal, who's website states:
"We have been conducting research and development for many years to develop the most comfortable and secure male stainless steel cages, tubes, and chastity devices in the world. This is not just an “off the shelf” chastity site. We hand craft every single one of the devices to the customer’s specifications without the high price tags".
I've long enjoyed the names of their devices: Queen's Keep, The Watchful Mistress etc ... we were especially interested in trying their Jail Bird device:
"The Jail Bird male chastity device is our most popular design.

"The stainless steel bars are very rigid which means they will not bend nor pinch. This device combines comfort, security, and great looks. Another perk to the Jail Bird is that it has a very low profile that is easy to hide under clothing. The open design makes it easy to clean without removing the cage which makes it possible to wear the device indefinitely. Great for Internet or long distance relationships.

"Item is constructed of 316 surgical stainless steel using 1/4″ and 1/8″ round bar.
Base ring is constructed on 1/4″ round bar.
All parts are handmade and can be built to any size.
Light Weight 5 OZ.(For average size)"
Don't confuse the Jail Bird device with the Bird Cage or Jail House chastity devices that are available from various retailers. Although these are slightly similar in design and certainly friends have reviewed them well (and you can read a review about them both here) the Jail Bird device from Mature Metal is made to measure.

We've provided sol's measurements and the final item we receive will be hand crafted to fit him. That's why you can't buy the device from Extreme Restraints or Sax or whatever. It's custom made so has to be purchased direct from Mature Metal.

There are pros and cons with all chastity devices. Out of the ones we've tried we've had the most success (and fun) with the CB6000. We still use this for short term play and of course it's still a good device for traveling because it's plastic.

But we've been looking for a device for longer use that will not cause the chaffing sol experiences. The Jail Bird seems to work better in this regard (for example, wantshiny wrote on a thread about the device posted by Tom Allen on Chastity Forums: "on the plus side though there is absolutely no issues in cleaning, chaffing, little worn patches of skin that always was a issue with the cb6K" while Chastity Geek noted in his progressive review on Chastity Mansion "no rub marks on me, no sore points") so we thought we'd see how it goes.

It's been ordered. We'll let you know how things proceed :)

Photo:
Mature Metal


Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Invitation to Roissy...

"Story of O" illustration
by Leonore Fini



A few days ago we received a lovely invitation that begins:

This made me smile, not only because it's an honor to receive such invitations from friends, but because until recently being invited to Roissy was not something female dominants would normally expect. In fact, many of my female dominant friends dislike the whole Roissy concept.

But Roissy was an important part of my BDSM growth. And anyway, if Samois (the San Francisco based lesbian-feminist BDSM organization that existed from 1978 to 1983) felt comfortable about taking its name from a related estate, why shouldn't I hold a soft spot for Roissy? And in regards to this particular invitation I love the fact that the contemporary scene is open enough to hold high protocol and themed BDSM events that allow traditional gender / role roles to blur.

But I may have lost some readers, so let me backtrack for those for whom the terms Roissy and Samois are unfamiliar.

"STORY OF O"

They are from Pauline Reage "Story of O":


There was also a 1975 film by director Just Jaeckin starring Corinne Clery and Udo Kier. In fact my old (battered and extremely well read) paperback copy of the book came out at the time of the film and shows the stars on the cover:


You can read about other adaptations of "Story of O", and the wonderful story about it's publication and author, on Wiki. It's always been controversial - and that's within the scene as well as the vanilla world. As one obviously UK based sub evocatively put it:
"It's like Marmite ... you love it or hate it"
Carmela Ciuraru agrees:
"Depending on your erotic wishes and habits, Story of O will disturb you, frighten you, make you angry, make you upset, confuse you, disgust you, or turn you on. Maybe everything at once. Decades after its publication, the novel has not lost its shock value"
And yet it remains extremely popular. As Carmela Ciuraru recently wrote:
"Although shocking for its graphic depictions of sadomasochism, the novel was admired for its reticent, even austere literary style. It went on to achieve worldwide success, selling millions of copies, and has never been out of print. This was no cheap potboiler. There was nothing clumsy, sloppy, or crude about it. Histoire d’O was awarded the distinguished Prix des Deux Magots, was adapted for film, and was translated into more than twenty languages."

WHAT'S IT ABOUT?

Here's Wiki's outline of the plot:

"Published in French by Jean-Jacques Pauvert, Story of O is a tale of female submission about a beautiful Parisian fashion photographer, O, who is blindfolded, chained, whipped, branded, pierced, made to wear a mask, and taught to be constantly available for oral, vaginal, and anal intercourse. Despite her harsh treatment, O grants permission beforehand for everything that occurs, and her permission is consistently sought.

"At the beginning of the story, O's lover, René, brings her to the château of Roissy, where she is trained to serve the men of an elite group. After this first period of training is finished, as a demonstration of their bond and his generosity, René hands O to Sir Stephen, a more dominant master. René wants O to learn to serve someone whom she does not love, and someone who does not love her. Over the course of this training, O falls in love with Sir Stephen and believes him to be in love with her as well. While her vain friend and lover, Jacqueline, is repulsed by O's chains and scars, O herself is proud of her condition as a willing slave.

"During the summer, Sir Stephen decides to move O to Samois, an old mansion solely inhabited by women for advanced training and body modifications related to submission. There she agrees to receive a branding and a labia piercing with rings marked with Sir Stephen's initials and insignia. At the climax, O appears as a slave, nude but for an owl-like mask, before a large party of guests who treat her solely as an object"

So now you can place the terms Roissy and Samois.

WHAT'S IT MEANT TO YOU?

"Story of O" was my introduction to all things kinky. I read it aged 17 and it affected me profoundly. I didn't particularly identify with any character or orientation. The book worked on a much deeper level than that. It reassured me that I was not alone in my teenage desires ... and ...

It turned me on like nothing I'd ever encountered. I'd never felt that deep stab of lust and desire before. There were many scenes that acted as powerful triggers for me, including that last scene mentioned in the quote above, where O - wearing only a mask and a leash - is led into a party:

"not once did anyone ever speak to her directly. Was she then of stone or wax, or rather some creature from another world?"
Many years later I remember my delight when encountering a similar scene in Jacqueline Carey's Kushiel's Dart, when Phèdre first sees herself in the mirror wearing the outfit Melisandra has created for The Longest Night Ball:
"a loose-fitting gown of transparent white gauze ... spangled ... with tiny diamonds .... a half-mask, a white-and-brown feathered osprey with the eye-holes trimmed in black velvet piping ....

"A captive creature gazed back, masked and collared, naked beneath a scintillating curtain of gauze. In the candlelight, I could see right through the gauze. I would be as good as naked in it, before half the nobles of Kusheth.
Later:
"with a hundred eyes upon me and Melisande's hand at the end of my velvet lead, I felt a desire such as I had never known stir in the distant reaches of my being"
Those first readings of "Story of O" made me feel the same, and I'm sure the book influenced Jacqueline Carey as it did so many of us who are wired this way. I certainly laughed when Carmela Ciuraru wrote recently that in 2009 after Radio 4's program “The Story of O—The Vice Française",
"One listener had remarked, on the air, that hearing excerpts from the book provoked “a rush of blood to the non-thinking parts.”
Oh yes, indeed. Later in my professional life I was lucky enough to spend some time researching the estate of artist Leonore Fini (1918 - 1996) who's owl masks inspired Pauline Reage and the film makers:


And who also illustrated "Story of O" exquisitely:


I'm still very fond of using masks in play *grin*.

WHAT'S IT MEANT
TO THE SCENE?

The contemporary BDSM scene is filled with references to "Story of O". Lady A du Malevil notes:
"it's not news to anybody with the slightest interest in BDSM that the novel “The Story of O” by Pauline Reage and the 1975 movie are milestones to what the society represents, how it is portrayed and how it is kept from the curious eye"
As Lady du Malevi points out, the novel had a further major influence of contemporary BDSM symbols:
"as the book described an the movie depicted, after a person’s training was over, they were to wear a specific type of ring, which was viewed as some sort of a recognition symbol for those involved in BDSM ....

"These are two supposed versions of the Roissy ring, out of which the first one was actually used in the movie ... the second ring ... is a triskele (or triskelion) ... The Celtic triskele was adapted for the BDSM world in this form (copyrighted by Steve Quagmyr, but which can be used for non-profit purposes). He explains it to be the communion of Safe, Sane and Consensual, but also the interdependency of BD, DS and SM as well as that of Tops, Bottoms and Switches; it is supposed to be a discreet way for people of the scene to recognize each other, even in a vanilla environment, without negative consequences that sometimes occur when one is discovered to be part of an Alternative Lifestyle.

Both styles of ring are quite common in the scene. We have friends who proudly wear them. And of course there is also quite a market in O style garments:


"During the daytime, the female slaves wear a costume similar to eighteenth century chambermaids: a whalebone bodice, which raises the breasts and is very tight at the waist; a starched linen petticoat; an ample gown with an open neck which reveals the raised breasts unless partially hidden by a thin gauze. They are not permitted to wear stockings, and must always sit with their bare flesh in contact with the material of their seat. They wear thick-soled high-heel clogs or mules, with only a single band of satin across the foot. Sections of the skirt can be lifted and worn tucked into the belt, exposing whatever parts of the lower body the masters wish to be exposed.

"Each woman is fitted with snug, locking, leather bracelets and a leather collar, which require a key to open. Both bracelets and collar have metal rings which allow them to be used as restraints"

You'll find several places online making these garments. You can of course also purchase cyber versions on Second Life:


So Roissy mythology tends to follow us around ... and that's without my even starting to discuss what the scene now defines as Roissy protocols. I'm well aware that my interest in high protocol events, in creating a high protocol household, even my CFNM / CMNF interests are linked to my early exposure to Roissy's:
"somewhat Victorian [environment] ... the pomp and circumstance of a society far removed from our modern, 21st century world"



DO ROISSY EVENTS REALLY HAPPEN?

Yes and no. It depends how you define a Roissy event.

At first glance online you might get confused. Certainly you'll find a few businesses and websites using familiar terminology. Club O in Bristol for one example. It's a great name and it will attract kinksters because of that name. But it's a standard kink club, it doesn't hold Roissy themed or oriented events. Another example are the renowned Roissy Workshops in the UK:

"Thinking about a fetish theme night at your club ? Staging a fetish based show ? Making a film/documentary with a fetish slant ? Got an idea for a photo shoot for one of the magazines or just simply want to hold a private gathering for your friends ... but have no equipment etc ? Roissy Workshops can help you make it happen..."
Again, great rep in the scene, they've created amazing dungeons and events, but I think they are using the name more to signal to other kinksters that they are genuine in the BDSM services they offer, than Roissy oriented. You'll find the name used all sorts of ways. You can even attend a Roissy cruise in the Caribbean ... or read about a Murder at Roissy:
"Mistress Raven [is secured to] to the bondage rack in Roissy, a weekend resort for sadomasochists in the Arizona desert ... "Murder At Roissy" combines a pulse-pounding mystery with scenes of actual BDSM play in all its variety and excitement"
But what about those looking for the "real Roissy"? Some individuals claim "Roissy exists!" simply to attract play partners. On the other hand if you google "Roissy" you will find several websites for themed organizations and groups that are more specifically focused, such as the European The Roissy Society:
"The Roissy Society is formed by consenting adults who live out
their dominant and submissive sexual dreams and fantasies inspired by
the novel "The Story Of O" by Pauline Reage"
Being involved with BDSM retreats we are also aware of similar places around the world who include "Story of O" as part of their events program. One example is the FrenchDungeon run by an English couple in France, which offers:

"Story of O How many of you have read that wonderful book and wondered what it would be like to stay at Roissy, well for one or two lucky ladies the chance is available. We are offering an exclusive chance to stay for a “Story of O” weekend or a couple of days and serve alongside other experienced female submissives, undertake their training and experience life at Roissy ( Be warned this can be very intense)"
They are not wrong about it being intense. I'll discuss why a bit later.

Here in Australia there are a few people hosting these types of events. Most events are private, you won't find them with event pages on Fet ... but you will find a Chateau Roissy in Australia group on Fet, which includes this thread:
"Interested in being at Roissy? Chateau Roissy offers a themed event bringing the vision of Roissy to life: a community celebrating dominance and submission, a world with rules and rituals, with themed activities and facilities…

"An Evening at Roissy On O’s journey, Roissy was where her submission was brought to life, was the place to which she would be returned for refresher training as needed. All of the submissives at Roissy were at different places on their journeys, were on different journeys: yet for all, Roissy asked, demanded of them the submission they could give. And for some, the journey to Roissy begins even before they arrive…

"This is a story of noblesse oblige, of dominance and submission as it can be, as part of the normal course of life… the chateau, the dress, the required behaviour and rules support, embody and enforce the reality that can be...
Sounds like fun :)

WHAT ABOUT ONLINE ROISSYS?

Online Roissy recreations include Kink.com's extraordinary The Upper Floor:
"Kink.com has spent 11 years producing quality BDSM entertainment, with a view to celebrating and demystifying alternative sexualities. The Armory is a 200,000 sq foot ex-military castle in the heart of San Francisco. After kink.com obtained the armory, a wider mission was formed of 'exploring and demystifying alternative lifestyles'.

"The most elusive and challenging concept worthy of exploration was the creation of a 24x7 BDSM lifestyle space as fantasized about in BDSM literature such as 'Story of O', Anne Rice's Sleeping Beauty Series, and Laura Antoniou's MarketPlace Series. Such literature often describes a castle like place in which the norms of society are replaced by the rules of dominance and submission. "The Upper Floor" is an exploration into the feasibility of such a place and lifestyle.

"Mission: To create a 24x7 alternative lifestyle community.

"Vision: To repurpose the top floor of the Armory as an Edwardian styled Great House, in which masters, mistresses and slaves will all have a role."
And they are certainly having a lot of fun with it. Kink.com of course is also well known to Roissy fans for their very popular "Training of O" programs.

You can join The Roissy Society online VIP program:
"Voyeuristic Internet Participant VIPs are mutual anonymous. The members of the IC and the FGs remain anonymous to VIPs. Contact is held over the Internet only. VIPs have the privilege to view and download pictures and videos from the Internet site of the Roissy Society for their private purposes. They are not allowed to make these pictures or videos accessible to anybody else. A membership fee has to be paid"
There's even an online Roissy in Second Life. It looks pretty amazing ... you'll find images from someone who posted about going on a tour here. Here's a description of SL's Roissy from the blog of it's creator:
"Roissy is a BDSM community, with an emphasis on community ... Roissy people know and care about one another. They work togther as a community of tolerance and acceptance. While (IC)BDSM roleplay is a prominent part of our community, most specifically in the Chateau Library... The Roissy sim is loosely based on The STORY of O"
Let's explore that "loosely", or what makes it different:
"Within the Chateau where IC (In Character) role play is practiced and respected Mistresses and Masters maintain their dominance over the Sisters of O and the Brothers of O. The Sisters and the Brothers earn their positions through a series of interviews before securing their honored titles and sacred position of service within the Sisterhood and the Brotherhood. These submissives are honored and served as the sacred core of Roissy. They are never to be abused or humiliated without their expressed consent..."
Anyone who knows their "Story of O" will have quickly picked up the gender differences ... the original Roissy was for male dominants, and only female slaves served them. The structure of Roissy looked like this:

"Three classes are present at Roissy: male masters, male valets and female slaves.
"Masters are members of the Roissy society, and O's owner, Rene, is a member of this class. Whilst each owner retains ultimate authority over his slave, she is subject to the commands of the other masters and is sexually available to them all. As O is told on her first night, "You are here to serve your masters."

"The valets are employees of the society, and wear a uniform similar to a theatre usher: jacket, waistcoat, frill-shirt, and breeches. Valets carry out any punishments which the masters do not wish to inflict personally, and are responsible for chaining the slaves at night in their rooms. The valets have the keys to the doors of these rooms, and may make use of the slaves in their set of rooms. However, valets do not have the status of masters, and give their instructions to the slaves in the form of polite requests.

"None of the women at Roissy have any of the keys, and each owner's slaves are also subject to the commands of the other masters, as symbolised by the skeleton keys for all the doors, padlocks, collars and bracelets which each master possesses. They are also subject to the instructions of the valets"
This is one of the reasons "Story of O" remains controversial even in the scene.

CAN YOU TELL US MORE ABOUT WHY IT'S
CONTROVERSIAL EVEN IN THE SCENE?

I think the person who's explored this best is Molly Weatherfield:
"Story of O" has sold millions of copies, and hasn't been out of print in more than 40 years. It has influenced numerous erotic fictions, been made into two (wretched) films and given shape to countless fantasy lives.

"But it's a difficult book to think about right now, its structure and assumptions somehow out of tune with our times. O, a young fashion photographer, goes with her lover to a mysterious chateau, where she's whipped, chained, exposed and humiliated, all in the supplest, most finely poised sentences imaginable. Elegantly choreographed and costumed, "Story of O" seems a bit of a period piece now -- like 1950s haute couture in a world of latex and piercings.

" But it's the novel's pre-feminism that makes it seem so foreign to us. The chateau is run entirely by and for the pleasure of men: No male submissives or female dominants need apply (though in the character of Anne-Marie, there's a suggestion that some of the middle management is female). Sexual power and privilege in "Story of O" are rigid, systematic, almost metaphysically encoded -- O is like a supplicant joining a religious order. But what seems most out of sync with our time is "Story of O's" utter lack of that therapeutic quality that pervades so much contemporary porn: that remarkable insistence that this stuff is good for you, bringing with it self-knowledge, autonomy and the ability to love."
Weatherfield raises major scene concerns when she asks:
"is it possible to assimilate "Story of O's" lonely, pristine quest toward self-negation into this clamorous, self-actualizing, "sex positive" culture?"
You can actually glimpse where these past and present BDSM cultures collide when you read contemporary reviews of "Story of O". Let's take Zelda Gillian's thoughtful and articulate review as an example, and I do suggest reading it in it's entirety. She begins:
"Many people have admitted that it was reading The Story of O (or watching the documentary) that set them on their own path to discovering their kinky preferences For me, I discovered BDSM erotica after having discovered my kink, so in a way I am playing catch up with the psychological and emotional mindfuck that can be BDSM erotica. Because of this, The Story of O may have been less meaningful to me, or less life-altering, than it has been for others."
Zelda Gillian's problems with the book all reflect her strong, healthy awareness of contemporary scene values. Here she writes of the characters:
"I couldn’t help but read the story and get irritated with O for being so weak and vapid, at René for being so manipulative and empty, at Sir Stephen for not caring more. In the end, my reaction to the story is probably driven by the fact that participating in BDSM and power exchange is very much an act of love for me — both on the receiving end, as well as on the giving end.

"The fact that neither René nor Stephen ever exhibit true caring or concern for O or her well-being is endlessly frustrating for me. And the fact that O hangs on to René despite his obvious mistreatment of her breaks my heart. For me, the return for an individual’s total submission is to know that the dominant has the submissive’s best interests in mind. I felt that René and Stephen could not have cared less about O, as evidenced by their treating and playing her like a vapid fuck-toy without a care for maintaining or nurturing her psyche"
She concludes:
"In the end, The Story of O is simply a story about nonconsensual slavery without the safeword of love or tenderness to pull it from the depths of despair ... I recommend reading it, but only as a method of better understanding the origin and progression of BDSM erotica in the past half a century in order to gain a greater appreciation of more contemporary titles".

I have many friends who would think Zelda Gillian is overly generous with that conclusion, but I think it's a fair one that reflects the scene's contemporary concerns and issues extremely well. Having said that I'd like to make a recommendation here. If you have dismissed "Story of O" in the past, have a read of Tanos' really interesting article "The Story of O" revisited". He begins:
"I first read Story of O in 1993 and at the time I didn't really like it - certainly not its BDSM themes ... I reread it twice over the years with no change in how I felt, although I did start to notice some astute observations and quotable passages. But during the past few weeks I've picked it up again and now I've finally fallen for it."

In some detail he then explains why, before concluding:
"It's been quite an experience to revisit such a well-known D/s classic and find my attitude change completely, but I'm glad I did"
So, before dismissing "Story of O" entirely, please ... go read Tanos :) Thank you. His article may not have made any difference to how you view the book, but then again, it may have changed a few readers' minds.

WHY ARE HOSTING EVENTS
LIKE THIS DIFFICULT?

To be brutally honest organizers face the task of creating an event based on a book that's core concepts - no matter how beloved - are out of sync with contemporary scene values. I've spoken to several private Roissy event organizers who have had real troubles creating their "House Rules". Let me give you some examples of problems they've faced:
  • In Roissy the central premise is about the female slaves being available sexually ... but how do you reconcile that at a BDSM scene event where many attendees under current scene values separate BDSM and sex?
  • This same issue is related to a problem Tanos raised - the Roissy idea of sharing slaves. Remember Tanos noted this was "a deeply un-Tanosian concept ;)". But it's not just Tanos. Many people - and couples - in the scene find sharing a hard limit. Some male dominants do not want their slave touched by anyone else at all.
  • Some female slave attendees have concerns about body image that affect the event. You've read about the Roissy costumes earlier in this post. Apparently some women find it difficult to wear them, or be naked, amongst both other slaves and amongst the dominants. One American organizer wrote to me "Roissy is classically full of mirrors but we had to take the mirrors out of .... slave bedrooms because the girls were not used to seeing their reflections in any form they perceived as unflattering. After 15 minutes hanging from chains above the bed (a scene taken from the book) one slave was reduced to tears because she "had been forced to look at her awful body" via the mirrors. The toilet scene (where the valet watches O squatting to use the loo) was impossible to recreate for the same reasons". After a few events however the same organizer wrote "after attending several events at which they were praised for their beauty, some girls showed more confidence about being naked".
  • Should attendees' roles and orientations fit within Roissy protocols, ie only male dominants and female slaves? This can be very difficult to do when the event is occurring within a small scene. Many organizers know female dominants they'd like to invite. Financially it may also not be possible to host an event without a certain number of attendees.
  • If slaves of both genders are invited specific male slave issues may arise. For example, what does a male slave wear? Do they take on a female role during the event or stay "male"?
Lots of interesting challenges.

Yes, certainly there is a place for traditional Roissy events that limit attendees to a certain sex and role, that's after all what Roissy was all about. But. I think private event organizers quickly become aware they have to adapt and compromise. Each organizer solves each problem in their own unique way, and that's in part what makes these events interesting to attend.

So sol and I are heading to Roissy. We may share what happens, we may not *grin*. But I'd like to give Molly Weatherfield the last word here, a quote taken from the conclusion of her article The Mother of Masochism, written just after the author of "Story of O" died, and one that goes to the very heart of the issues the book is currently facing:
"Pornography is not only shocking --it's embarrassing, a return to a time when we hadn't yet learned to defend ourselves against the outrages of our imaginations. But Aury wasn't embarrassed ... Vastly literate, circumspect, living a life of quietly constrained passion, she was as unshaken by the same raging desire within her as Emily Brontë.

"And so this ... essay [is] my tribute, recognition, thanks, to Aury for showing me, and others, the way into the chateau. Or the ways -- in the first pages of the novel O enters the chateau twice, once blindfolded, once not -- take our pick, it doesn't matter. Just as it doesn't matter how we stumble in, stupidly, haphazardly, purposefully, sex-positively -- the door will open to disclose our own half-forgotten, naively imagined visions waiting there for us. Just as Aury's imagination waited for her to write this most serendipitous of masterpieces, this most inevitable of visions."

REFERENCES AND ONLINE RESOURCES

PRIMARY SOURCES:
First hand information comes from three people directly concerned: Dominique Aury (author), Jean Paulhan (author of the preface) and Jean-Jacques Pauvert (publisher).
If you are interested in tracking down interviews with them start here.

Dominique Aury
For the first authorized revelation of Dominique Aury's authorship of Story of O:
  • John de St. Jorre, “The Unmasking of O”, The New Yorkers (1st August 1994). de St. Jorre later wrote a book that explores this in more depth. See the BOOKS section below.
Some documentaries worth watching / listening to:
  • Writer of O, a 2004 documentary film by Pola Rapaport, mixed interviews with re-enactments of certain scenes from the book.
  • The Story of O: The Vice Francaise BBC Radio 4
  • Erotica : A Journey Into Female Sexuality dir. by Maya Gallus (A Canadian TV documentary including a filmed interview with Dominique Aury realised in 1997)
  • Vocation: clandestine, entretien avec Nocole Grenier (Paris: Gallimard, 1999) (transcription of a long interview realised for French TV documentary in 1989). Grenier published her account of this interview in "Anne-Dominique-Pauline Desclos-Aury-Réage", Sigila, n°6, October 2000

GENERAL:
Geraldine Bedell -
I wrote "The Story of O" The Guardian Sunday 25 July 2004
Jacqueline Carey - Kushiel's Dart (text quoted from here)
Carmela Ciuraru - “Pauline Réage and Dominique Aury,” from Nom de Plume: A (Secret) History of Pseudonyms (HarperCollins, 2011) (published as The Story of The Story of O in Guernica June 2011)
Favrielle's Atelier - The Longest Night outfit
French Dungeon - Events
Kink.com -
The Upper Floor
Kink.com -
Training of O
Lady du Malevil - BDSM symbols
oraclutie - Histoire d'O

Ownership Possession (Tanos) - Roissy protocol
Ownership Possession (Tanos) - "The Story of O" revisited"
Project Blu - Story of O film review
The Roissy Society
Story of O website (lots of info)
Molly Weatherfield - The Mother of Masochism SALON Aug. 6, 1998

Vannon Vechon - "l' Histoire d'O" by Pauline Reage"
Wiki - Guido Crepax
Wiki - Ring of O
Wiki - Samois
Wiki - Story of O
Zelda's Bookshelf - Story of O review

Discussion groups:
Dresses:
TSR - thread on O dresses
(please note I have no affiliation with any of the following businesses.
Some have been recommended by friends)

Kleid der O
Worthpoint

Rings
:
Fetjeweller
Richard Larson

Masks:
These are pretty much straight Venetian feather animal / bird style half masks, so you can get them anywhere Venetian masks are sold
Venetian Masquererade Masks (cheapy pretty owl ones)

BOOKS:
Dominique Aury:
  • Histoire d' O / Story of O by Pauline Reage. You'll find it for sale online at all the usual places :)
  • Text resources: online English translation can be found here
  • Re the sequel. here's Wiki:
"A sequel, Retour à Roissy (Return to Roissy, but often translated as Return to the Chateau, Continuing the Story of O), was published in 1969 in French, again with Jean-Jacques Pauvert, éditeur. It was published again in English by Grove Press, Inc., in 1971. It is not known whether this work is by the same author as the original"
John de St. Jorre:
  • UK publishing history: The Good Ship Venus : the Erotic Voyage of the Olympia Press (London: Hutchinson, Random House Group, Ltd., 1994 and Pimlico, 1996) (Faber & Faber of London reissued it in 2009. It can be ordered from www.faberfinds.co.uk)
  • US publishing history: VENUS BOUND: THE EROTIC VOYAGE OF THE OLYMPIA PRESS AND ITS WRITERS [New York: Random House, 1996]
ADAPTATIONS
The book has inspired various film directors, musicians, artists etc. You'll find a terrific list on the Story of O website here.

Also useful:
IMDB - Story of O film 1995
IMDB - Story of O series
You'll find sections of these films on YouTube.
IMDB - Writer of O doco

Related porn that might raise a smile
text - Roissy Society
("an erotic story author met one of his female readers and was introduced to the "Roissy Society", a secret women D/s club, where his wildest fantasy dreams became true")

video - A night at Chateau de Roissy



Thank you:
SirT
+
to everyone I quoted,
especially:
Tanos
Molly Weatherfield
Zelda Gillian

Photos

Invite
The Chateau Roissy

mask scene
from "Story of O" 1975
Directed by Just Jaekin, based on Histoire d'O.
Screenplay: Sebastian Japrisot. Photography: Robert Fraissa. Music: Pierre Bachelet;
with Corrine Clery, Martine Kelly, Alain Noury, Udo Kier and Anthony Steele.


modesign by monoel second life outfit


Worthpoint Story of O realtime costume

Doris Kloster painting of Roissy
from The Illustrated Story Of O by Doris Kloster
with extracts from the original text by Pauline Réage
Introduction by Jean-Jacques Pauvert
Publisher: St. Martin's Press, La Musardine France, 2001


Story of O illustration by Leonore Fini

Story of O illustration by Guido Crepax
from comic- strip Story of O (1975)
English edition Grove Press 1978


Thursday, August 11, 2011

Stapling sol a new orifice...

MzAntonina fucking sol's new
orifice, created via stapling

this is an edgeplay post

please don't read
if you are not interested in:
medical play
blood play
stapler play


A few months back now sol and I attended a workshop presented by Bella447 and her lovely boyPaulus on using medical staples in BDSM play. I later blogged:
"Medical play is popular in the scene and covers everything from Dr / nurse role play and examinations to needle play, catheters, enemas, saline infusions, sounding, as well as various body modifications (piercings, brandings etc). A lot of these are edgeplay techniques that need to be properly taught. Which is why we were planning to spend the weekend attending Bella447's workshops"
I wrote this about the topic and the workshop:
" I knew that in the US one can attend "Electronic Stapling Sensation Play Workshops" (such as those run by Markher and the pennygurl) and had also read about Teppycat's experience of being stapled from an electric stapler:
"There was also a demo of using a staple gun during play — not a medical stapler, not an office-supply type stapler; an electric goddamn staple gun from Home Depot. The presenters were a couple — top and bottom — who actually made getting stapled in the ass look fun. (Well, maybe not the ass.) They explained in detail all the safety stuff first — how to make sure that the staples and gun are exceedingly clean — clean enough to puncture human skin without running the risk of infection. And then they just started stapling..."
Bella447 was not using "an electric goddamn staple gun from Home Depot" but a medical / surgical stapler:
"Surgical staplers are devices which bend a usually stainless steel "staple" across an incision as an alternative to sutures. They have a slightly lower rate of infection and are quicker to apply, but are much more difficult to remove in a DIY context (a specialized staple remover is strongly recommended, although they can be hand-removed). Staples are rarely used in atypical body modification and are more common as a part of BDSM play in this context"
"The sterile medical staples that come in these staplers look like everyday staples, except the ends curve in towards each other when they go in. They don't far into the skin, less than a needle, and as Monk and Mistress Matisse have noted, it's an easy device to delivery a lot of sensation quickly.

"In Bella and Paulus' demonstration the staples didn't appear to hurt much going in, but you can certainly make the experience more intense by where you place them and how you plan your scene..."
I then quoted Mistress Matisse, who uses staples in this wonderful scene. Now, ever since reading Mistress Matisse's post and attending Bella's workshop sol and I have discussed extremely evil ideas for a very particular scene involving staples and his genitals. We also knew exactly who we wanted to join us for this scene: the elegant and always fiendish MzAntonina :)

While we waited for our next trip to Sydney, I did some research on our proposed scene. But as I found when I wrote about our stapling workshop there is very little info about the technique of BDSM stapling online. Even on Fet I was not able to find any related images or text, although I was able to find photos of the female equivalent of what we wanted to do. To see what I'm on about, check out this photo on Fet. Surely it could also be done with males? Surely we were not the first to think about it? Perhaps we are more perverse than I thought!

We drove down to Sydney last Friday, had a wonderful butterfly boarding scene with MzAntonina on Saturday, and commenced this scene late Sunday afternoon. We had negotiated two scenes, the first combining staples and caning and a backup scene in case the stapling didn't work, of chemical play and caning.

Sol lay face up unrestrained on MzAntonina's massage table wearing a corset top and black stockings. Between his legs we placed the medical stapler, the staple remover and lots of Medi-Swipes:


I showed MzAntonina how to use the surgical stapler, then we practiced inserting staples on sol's upper arm. As I wrote before, medical staples are like normal staples, except the ends curve in toward each other when they go in. Here we are removing the practice staples with the great little removal device:


As Bella447 had said at her workshop, medical stapling is incredibly easy! Now it was time to see if our cunning plan would work. We folded sol's cock between his balls, then wrapped the skin of his scrotum around everything. While MzAntonina held things in place:


I swabbed sol with alcohol wipes and then began stapling:


First two staples:


Four staples:


Eight staples:


Time for MzAntonina to have a turn stapling while I held sol together:


Here's the final "package":


It really did look extraordinary:


Here's sol feeling his new look:


Watching his face was fascinating, as his hand first cupped the entire area and then his fingers gently explored.... Now it was time for a little sensation play on the "package". First MzAntonina ran her fingernails over it:


Then our five headed wartenberg wheels:



We added a few more staples:


Until it looked like this:


But the extra ones at each end pulled too much so we took them out:


This left interesting areas of possible intrusion that could be explored *grin*. But first we spent some time each running our vibrating sound around the staples and taut skin:


After I added lube MzAntonina began inserting the vibrating sound into sol's new "cunt":


Both sol and I at the same time made a comment about Storm Constantine's book Hermatech, in which one of the characters:
"Zambia Crevecoeur has ambitions well above his abilities and considerable pride ... club owner, Jahsaxa Penumbra wants him in her stable of whores. Having reduced him to penury and desperation, Penumbra presents the offer that he can’t refuse. There is a new surgical technique that allows for implanting additional sexual organs in the body, for creating a new kind of human that is neither male nor female and is able to please either, or both, or several"
I think sol was definitely feeling like Zambia with lots of new orifices during this scene!


Using the vibrating sound like this was so hot to watch, sol making very happy noises during all of this:


We each took turns:


Then I picked up the wartenburg wheels again and ran them over the actual staples:


At one point MzAntonina introduced her finger into the bottom of the "package":


Which gave me the idea of introducing another sound there ... now sol was being fucked by both of us at the same time:


I could feel the vibration traveling down from the sound at the top, it felt amazing. Sol wrote on Fet later "it felt pretty incredible being fucked in two brand new orifices". When he saw the photos he added "Wow. Of course I didn't actually see this at the time - it looks amazing". Although he was obviously really enjoying the scene at the time, at about this point I did become aware he couldn't see anything so I switched the camera to video, and shot about a minute of footage. I might upload it here later if I can work out how.

When MzAntonina and I checked the time we were stunned to find an hour and a half had passed. It really was that intense. Sol's staples could have stayed in for a while, in fact I've been thinking of further stapling chastity and watersports games that might be played in future. But now it was time to remove them. Here they are, nearly out, sol having been well and truly fucked:


We then turned sol over for the last part of the scene: a caning:


MzAntonina stood to sol's left, I stood on his right, which worked well in terms of our being right and left handed. We worked our way through various implements. This photo is out of focus but I wanted to post it because of the way it shows MzAntonina's (delrin?) cane striking sol's cheeks:


After about ten minutes of strokes MzAntonina applied her leather vampire gloves:


Which brought up the blood very nicely. For the finale MzAntonina particularly enjoyed applying our plastic covered wire cane:


At the end of the scene MzAntonina gave us some privacy to finish. I allowed sol to masturbate:


While I applied the wartenberg wheels to his nipples .... hard:


After he came I looked down and laughed. "Your poor genitals have had enough for the day" I said, "your balls have vanished right up inside you!"



REFERENCES AND ONLINE RESOURCES:

Presenters:
If you are in Australia and would like to invite Bella447 to present on stapling, please contact her through her Fetlife profile.

Quite a few BDSM presenters offer stapling workshops in the US. Amongst them:
  • Wintersong offers Skin Stapling for Pain and Pleasure The skin stapler is a remarkable versatile and self contained tool for play. You can use it to achieve everything from lovely patterns, to delicious pain, to bondage and chastity. This class will cover the variety of uses for this fabulous tool from the basic to the more advanced"
  • Slutress and Zebrianna’s Skin Stapling 101 presentation "will help you to better utilize the sub-dermal technics of Staples. Learn “hands on” how to utilize various Stapling techniques for pain as well as pleasure. Learn how to make beautiful designs and art work with Staples and other supplies. Like Corsets, wings, flowers and more. Imaginations are encourage.
Can't locate a real time presenter? These might keep your interest up while you search:
"Violet and Zachariah gives an introductory chat about the tools used in BDSM Medical Stapling, along with practical tips and safety information. Note: Always take a live course in this sort of activity from an experienced practitioner in your community before attempting to try it out yourself."
"Dottie from Needle Play Design uses Starfire to introduce skin stapling in this 7-minute clip. Dottie identifies the precise staple gun to use, demonstrates exactly how the gun works, compares and contrasts skin stapling with needle play (e.g., length of time to keep in the skin, pain levels, etc.), recommends where and where not to staple, shows how to make an arm corset – and highlights safety throughout"
General:
bdsm play pen - Stapled!
bdsmweblog.com - Sounding and Staples and Shocking. Oh My!
Forum thread - Thread on stapling
Mistress Matisse - Hurt The Ones you Love
Mistress Matisse - Staplers and BDSM toy taplers and other BDSM toys we love podcast

The Switch is not a Myth Fire on my back and staples in my arm


Thank you:
as I wrote on Fet
Many thanks to MzAntonina for her inspired
participation in this incredibly erotic scene :)


and to Bella447
for her inspiring workshop!

Photos:
Ms160

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Sadistic Goldwork with MzAntonina


this is an edgeplay post

please don't read
if you are not interested in:
medical play
needle play
blood play
butterfly boarding


Sol and I spent last weekend at MzAntonina and AnGall's lovely home in Sydney (observant readers might note a change of name there, for MzAntonina's partner ... it's a Fet name change not a partner change, and I'll update the blog as fast as I can to reflect it).

MzAntonina has become infamous on this blog for her sissy tea parties as well as this chemical play / urethral torture scene and this very popular CBT needle scene. In fact needle play is a particular art of MzAntonina's, in several different ways. I knew she'd be interested in our recent butterfly boarding scenes, and sure enough we negotiated a butterfly board scene for Saturday afternoon ... albeit butterfly boarding with a ... er ... twist *grin*.

We installed sol face up and unrestrained on MzAntonina's massage table, wearing some pretties:


In terms of a board we continued our research into cork boards and also used a small board cut from a square of new carpet, used upside down. I wanted to see how this worked re how much"give" the needles made when they were inserted:


We decided on the same 21 gauge needles as we used last time. Here is MzAntonina placing her first few needles:


The square of carpet actually worked well:


We worked our way around the scrotum:


Then stopped for a little sensation play on the shaft:


I played with sol's nipples:


While MzAntonina dragged her fingernails over his tortured bits:


We then added the five headed wartenberg wheels to the game:


Now it was time to start working on the "twist". MzAntonina got out her the gold thread and began winding it around needles:


She created an intricate pattern:


Back and forth, and again:


Pretty, isn't it? We then stopped taking photos for a while as we inserted needles up sol's shaft. Sol said later "the needles themselves were painful in the scrotum but not too bad up side of the shaft". MzAntonina then began to wind her gold thread up the shaft:


Then she looped the gold thread around a needle:


And began to decorate sol's pegged out genitals with green and gold beads:



Here's the end result:



We admired this for a while and then MzAntonina picked up the gold thread spool again:


And began wrapping more gold thread:


around the tops on the needles:


Inspired by a scene with Daddy_K she slowly began to tighten the thread:


Tighter and tighter:


As with Daddy_K's nipple trick (which used dental floss) MzAntonia's gold thread began to force the needles inwards:


Until sol's cock and balls looked swollen, within their golden jeweled bindings:


The skin forced out by the pressure of the gold thread on the needles:


Sol said later "when the (gold) wire was tightened it felt like it was cutting like a knife". Eventually the tension was released:


And the decorations removed:



Both MzAntonina and I admired the look of bright blood against the gold thread:


A final alcohol swap wipe down:


I then let sol come:


Sol's final report on the day: "nice" (said with a fiendish grin). Both MzAntonina and I were very pleased with the scene. "But what should I call the blog post?", I asked MzAntonina, "butterfly boarding doesn't really cover it!".

"Sadistic goldwork?
" she suggested. Done :)


Thank you:
to the extremely artistic
MzAntonina

Photos:
Ms160