Staked Cock (Butterfly Boarding)

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Easter having put me in the mood for nailing things, I decided it was time for some more CBT needle play. I wanted to combine this with objectifying and disembodying sol's cock and balls, and "stake out" sol's genitals.

At the time we did this scene I didn't know that this type of "stake out" had a name: butterfly boarding. Which itself is a form of impalement play, and of course is also edgeplay. I agree with Mistress Sade (who's wonderfully illustrated post I discovered after this scene, when I went to write my own post up) who says you need an experienced teacher. It's now four years since I put my first needles into flesh, two years since we started attending needle play workshops and one year since alexpierce instructed us re male genital piercing. Since then we'd been enjoying adding to our CBT needles experience (see here and here). We were ready to try "butterfly boarding".

The board can be any flat material to which the male's scrotum can be nailed or pinned with needles. Some kinksters even use "electric butterfly boards" (also here). Hygienically you want something you can throw out afterwards, as there will probably be serious amounts of bodily fluids. Midori says she's seen "dense foam core to nylon cutting board material sawed to shape used for this [and also] the gauge of the needles would make a difference in terms of the material for the board", which is worth remembering.


Sol cut a panel from the (unused clean) blue foam mat from our camping kit, and then cut a round hole into that piece. I didn't measure it, but it needs to be individually sized. db noted re his scene with Mistress Sade:

"I then bought the foam-core and cut out the hole. Working very precisely, using a ruler, compass and Xacto knife, I cut a two inch round hole in the 3/16 inch thick foam-core board"

Our foam was not quite sturdy enough, so we hauled out the wooden Ball Presenter. Placed under the foam, it would hold sol's genitals in place while I practiced some fiendish needle play:


Here's the final installation:


If you've not read about us playing with the Ball Presenter before you might like to read some posts here and here :)

We then lay the blue foam panel on top of the Ball Presenter and sol pulled his cock and balls through the hole. Once he was lying flat and comfortable on our bed, I restrained his hands via the cuffs to the chains above the bed, and I tied some black hemp rope around the foam panel to keep it in place:


I've always loved the way the Ball Presenter objectifies and disembodies sol's cock and balls, and the foam did the same. I equally loved db's description of his own scene, when Mistress Sade:

"pulled my genitals through the hole in the board. The butterfly was pulled through the cocoon of the hole and emerged into the world. NOW, that is the definition of an offering – her own little toy butterfly presented on a white platter"

I chose 23 gauge needles in part because I wanted something shorter and 23g are kind of "middle range" re thickness (see this post for our explorations with gauges). db also noted that Mistress Sade used "20-25 gauge needles in a variety of different colored needle hubs". I wanted a uniformity of color hub, so was happy with the blue hubs of the 23 gauge, as they matched the color of the foam.

For a good "how to" post about needle play, read this one. I cleaned my hands and surfaces with antibacterial wash (I didn't worry about wearing gloves because we are fluid bonded) and then wiped over the area I planned to work with alcohol swaps:


I began to insert needles in an upright position at the very base of his balls:


Sol found those first needles "sharp and ouchy but bearable". I continued to insert them around the base of his balls, but soon realized I was going to encounter a major problem. The skin of his balls constantly moved, expanding and contracting. The needles were literally being pulled out of the foam base.

I altered my game plan - rather than thinking of each needle as something static that once placed didn't move, I now went back and slightly moved the tip of each needle in the foam, every time sol's balls changed size:


Interestingly when I looked at the foam pad after the scene those first needles had been moved up to fifteen times. But the new game plan worked. I was able to continue my "stake out":


Every now and then I would use another alcohol swab:


The final ring of needles around his scrotum number nineteen:


As you can see, sol still has a great hard on. It looked so amazing with the needles around the balls that I masturbated him for a minute or so, moving his foreskin up and down his straining shaft:


I knew his hard-on was amplified by the Ball Presenter. Shortly after sol politely informed me that his balls were becoming too painful from the lack of blood flow, so as this pain was not the point of this particular scene I undid the Ball Presenter underneath the foam pad ... you can see a corner sticking out in the photo below:


While that stopped the pain, the blue foam was still providing enough restriction to help maintain his erection. And that wasn't the only thing. He said later that after about 16 needles he started to relax and breathe through each needle's insertion and process it as sensation rather than pain. The resulting sensation was simply erotic ... thus the hard on remained!

But as you can see in the photo below, when I tried to insert needles down the side of his cock, the hardon really caused me problems:


His cock was lifting and pulling the needles out from the foam. So I commanded him to get rid of the hardon. He did a great job because a moment later his cock looked like this!:


I went back to work, placing the needles along his shaft. Sol didn't find these as intense as the needles in the scrotum. 30-something male (from femdom-resource) wrote this about his butterfly boarding scene with Lady Lydia:

"Putting the needles in place down the shaft is quite intense from a psychological perspective, but doesn’t actually hurt as much as you’d think it might. However, the final few in the head of the cock, the two yellow and six blue needles behind them in this shot, really do hurt as they go in. Luckily they were done at the end, when I was already awash with endorphins and adrenalin"

As I placed the needles up the left side of his cock I noticed we had our first blood spots for the scene:


alexpierce prepared me for blood when placing / removing needles from the male genitals, and I've always been grateful for that warning. We don't mind a bit of blood play, and neither do our play partners, but it's unnerving the first couple of times, you do worry you've caused damage. But I've learned now that sol bruises, then heals, and we've never done any permanent damage.

I'd been pulling sol's foreskin forward, the last couple of needles ... and now it was time to place the two needles actually into his foreskin:


Don't they look stunning?


Sol said later those foreskin needles placed him in a real predicament ... he wanted to be hard but not too hard because of pulling the shaft needles out of the foam, and at the same time he didn't want to get soft because the foreskin needles pulled on the foreskin:


Kind of "predicament impalement" instead of "predicament bondage" *grin*. Here's almost the final product, just one needle to go yet:


What was I feeling during all of this? Extremely focused. Turned on, absolutely, but focused and careful and in control and powerful and focused ... and amazed at how (as alexpierce once told me) putting needles through the male shaft and foreskin is truly like putting needles through butter ... so smooth a glide, so perfect the impalement as each needle tip was caught bright and beautiful and pure, within the bright light of the camper's torch on my forehead:


I think db gets things right in his description of his scene with Mistress Sade:

"Even now I can only imagine the sense of power, and pure sadistic pleasure she must have felt. Slowly pushing the needle through that most sensitive part of this male’s most precious and sensitive organ. I ponder the elastic resistance that the tissue and skin gave as she pierced through, then the sound of the crunch as the needle continued on into the foam of the board. It must have been delicious. My conscious and senscient submission to it was delicious as well"

And here's my final needle, inserted into the foreskin at the top, right near the frenum:



A final twiddle of the scrotum needles to make all were in place and upright:


A final play with the foreskin / frenum needle:


And here's the finished "stake out":


The final number of needles was 34. I was happy with this, for a first "butterfly boarding". Sol, meanwhile was still flying from the endorphins....

After taking some photos I began to remove the needles:


Blood was minimal until this one in the shaft came out:


I'd nicked a vein. After we'd wiped the worst of the blood up, I masturbated sol:



Who came very quickly .... funny that!


His orgasm was "extremely intense, it felt like we'd been building up to it four hours". We quickly cleaned up and fell back into bed ... it was all pretty intense for me, too :)

In terms of aftercare, I photographed the trouble spot a few times, to provide a visual reminder of an area to avoid:


Then we cleaned sol off and applied Savlon to all the open wounds. The next day sol's "marks" from that one spot looked pretty impressive:


But there's no pain. The only soreness is in the scrotum "if you pinch the skin, it's hurts a bit ... similar to recently when I spent 24 hours in a ball stretcher"

So would we do it again. "Of course :) " says sol. "Absolutely", says Ms160, "that was fun!"

Photos:
Ms160

Pegging Parties - practical tips

Uncredited Pegging Party image
from Newfound Fetish blog

Some friends are holding their first pegging party in Brisbane, for which they kindly sent us an invitation.

There is very little online about pegging parties, other than a bit of erotica and porn, neither of which discuss practical realities that a hostess faces. I sent the hostesses my own pegging party notes, as it's not worth re-inventing the wheel over some things. Then thought I might as well post those notes here, in the hope it might encourage other people to write about holding their own pegging events.

Pegging, for those who don't recognize the term (and some don't ... one person I know once told a male sub that pegging was putting pegs on a man's genitals) is according to Wiki:

"a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man's anus with a strap-on dildo. The neologism "pegging" was popularized when it became the winning entry in a contest in Dan Savage's Savage Love sex advice column, held after an observation was made that there was no common name for the act..."

There are a couple of very good essays by Jason Stotts on pegging here and here. I recommend them to you, and I'll shortly be updating the reference section of my BDSM For Beginners post on Everything You Wanted to Know About Strap On Sex to include them.

As regular readers know sol and I are rather fond of strap on sex *grin* . Over the years you'll find posts on this blog that explore:

• different types of strap on harness (for example you can read about using an around the waist harness here and here, and a thigh harness here ... and even a boot harness here)

• different brands (Trying out S(A)X's Deluxe Strap On Harness, Trying out S(A)X's Diva Strap On Harness or Trying out In Her Tube's Boot / Shoe Harness or Trying out Bondara's Ten Inch Dildo and Harness )

• and different positions (bum up: here and here, bent over: here and here, on his back: here and on his side: here).
  

And for a laugh, have a look at this post re Eco kinkster Strapon Play, which will lead you to a post that features this photo, which is one of my favorite all time photos of us playing:

As Wiki points out,

"Pegging has recently been featured in a number of pornographic movies; the first pegging scene (long before the term was developed) appears to have been in the non-pornographic 1970 film Myra Breckinridge, based on the novel of the same name by Gore Vidal, although it was not explicit. The first explicit such scene is believed to have occurred in the 1975 pornographic film The Opening of Misty Beethoven.^[3]

"Female-to-male strap-on pornography became a flourishing industry in the U.S. in the early 21st century, with a number of studios producing dedicated series about it. Adult titles include Strap It On (black women on white men), Babes Balling Boys, (with sixteen editions), Strap Attack, Strap-on Sirenz, Strap-on Chicks, Boss Bitches, (with over two dozen editions), various movies produced by LEDA Studios, and San Francisco-based Men In Pain. Several hundred exclusively pegging titles were developed, as well as twice as many bisexual and straight films with strap-on scenes..."

The idea of a pegging party - most often of the "frenzied ... gangbang" variety - is very popular in porn. There are also a few "Pegging Party" stories on Literotica. But while those stories are fun, they are still porn, and not exactly ... er ... realistic if you were trying to hold such an event.

And don't tell me they don't exist. I remember once writing a post about Femdom tea parties, saying yes, they do actually exist ... and they are fun! And pegging parties are the same. They are definitely happening. but they are privately hosted and you need to know the right people.

As with attending tea parties, knowing members of your local female dominant scene will certainly help, because these events are rarely advertised. For a start you need to join groups like Fetlife's Strapon play / pegging (if you are in Australia you can also join Fetlife's Strapon / pegging parties in Oz group). For a while there was a site called Social Pegging, which showed promise, but it's now offline (although you can still join Social Pegging group on Facebook).

As to hosting a pegging party here are my notes so far:

• I personally found instructions for how to hold swingers parties (such as Will Turner's "Throwing a Swinger Party for the First Time") more useful than BDSM party "how to's" because actual penetration is involved. So in some places there are different legal issues. You also have similar set up and clean up to swingers events. I learned a great deal about preparing for a swingers party when I stayed at Tawse Manor in New Zealand. Several of the useful practical tips below I picked up from Sirspuss during my stay ... thank you again puss!
  

• Make the event invitation only.

• There are pros and cons to Fetlife event pages. Yes you can promote your event, but you can't control who puts themselves down as attending. If you put up a Fetlife event page, include text that the event is invitation only and that anyone wishing to attend needs to contact the hosts.
  

• Keep your guest numbers down! You want people there you know and trust and who's interests match yours. A new wild card now and then is great but always meet new people before the event.
  

• Keep an eye on male switch guests ... they have a tendency to switch after they've been pegged, and desire sexual release. Your female dominant guest's orifices may not appreciate being the focus of that desire. Make your house rules clear that non pegging sex only happens after your party!
  

• In regard to who you invite, don't invite anyone you don't want to fuck. It's crude to say, I know, but it's true. The hostess is responsible for all guests and if anyone is left out they fall to you.

• Pegging is a specific term but you don't have to be gender specific re who you invite. Women can also be pegged, and males can also peg other males (with strap-on equipment)
  

• Think about adding a BDSM component to the event. Straight pegging parties are fine, but vanillas hold them. If you are kinky, you can add all sorts of interesting things. For example, on your invitation mention there will be prizes for Best Anal Jewelry and see what your guests come up with ... Or hold a Pony Pegging Night and have everyone wear pony tail butt plugs....

• Whether you allow alcohol and drugs (for example, poppers) is up to you. It probably depends on your venue as much as your personal preference. If you ban these substances and men insist they need the latter "to relax", instruct them to wear an anal plug the night before your party *grin*.
  

• You can try and request guests bring their own lube / condoms etc but for sure they won't. Much better to charge a small fee to cover supplies (lube / condoms / tissues / / wipes / antibacterial wash / latex gloves etc), and also some basic catering as people often crash hard after pegging and need aftercare / sugar. I also suggest budgeting for towels, enema gear and perfumed candles (explained below)

• Make sure everyone pays their fee BEFORE the event. That way you avoid any legal ramifications re paying for sex. Two other good things about paying in advance 1) it confirms who's actually attending, which is important for small events when numbers are limited and 2) it gives you an upfront budget

• Re venues, enema parties have different requirements, but for pegging parties look for either a private home where several rooms can be used (plus a couple of bathrooms) or a dungeon with bathroom facilities attached. Ideally you need a mix of public and private spaces, as some people don't want to peg in public.

• In the main dungeon or the center of the living area if using a house: place mattresses on the floor, covered with a plastic sheet. Make sure one bedroom / separate space near the dungeon is set up the same way for those who want privacy. If you can't get plastic, use dark sheets. Here's how Sirspuss set up the bedrooms for the swingers party at Tawse Manor:
  
  
  

• I learned from puss the importance of keeping the bathroom spotless at swingers parties, and this is even more important at pegging parties where the venue's bathrooms and toilets get more use than usual. As I wrote on my original post about that party, puss kept the bathroom "drawers and cupboards filled with anything guests could need, from super sized to snug condoms, to different types of lube, new soap, toothbrushes and razors, hair ties, shampoos etc as well as short black robes that guests could change into upon arrival if they desired". The only thing I'd add to that is extra toilet paper (which puss had, I just didn't think to mention it last time!)

• Have pegging porn play on the venue's TV in the living area or main dungeon space, to inspire guests. Music is also important, but up to the hostess to select.

• Massage tables are brilliant:
  
  • they can be placed at the right height for each couple pegging
  • the person being pegged can be placed in various positions
  • if the person being pegged desires restraints (and some do) they can be attached to the legs of the table, without needing wall restraint points
  • you can place a couple of massage tables in the center of the main play space for games / contests etc.
• So borrow a few if you can. They can be folded up and out of the way when not used.
  

• I also learned from puss that individual lube packets are better than large containers of lube, it's more hygienic and makes clean up quicker.

• Place lube, condoms, latex gloves and tissues / wipes / antibacterial gel in containers around the pegging areas, and make sure you have some small rubbish bins near them (we use tiny, brightly colored bins from a two dollar store)

• When you purchase your condoms get some of those variety packets ... plus some XL size - someone will always bring a supersized dildo, like this one of ours:
  
  
  

• Have a toy box out with spare strap on harnesses and dildos to offer extra choice to guests, as well as some BDSM toys.
  

• I also recommend buying lots of very cheap towels (2 or more per guest - they need one for showering and others for play) plus half that number of hand towels. Have these piled around the pegging spaces. Request your guests place a towel over any surfaces before they "engage". When they are finished have them throw out their used lube packets / condoms etc into the nearest bin, clean up while still in place with wipes and tissues, then use the towel for a last wipe down. Requests guests throw used towels in a particular spot in each room. Hosts should remove them asap (they may start to smell). Then chuck all used towels into your washing machine. Any not stained can be kept aside for your next pegging party. Dark colored towels are best for obvious reasons.

• Perfumed candles will also cut smells. And there will be smells and mess. Pegging porn strangely doesn't show or mention that part!

• You can certainly make enemas part of your pegging party but they do take a bit more organizing and you need access to serious amounts of bathrooms. They also take up significant time, so I request guests attend to this side of things before they arrive.
  

• I request a double enema before I peg someone, completed about an hour before the event. I also request the area is shaved. But that's just me. Each hostess should go with what's comfortable.

• Guests should shower when they arrive (there is a good reason sex workers insist on this ... it's also standard before swingers parties). Then as hostess you should do an anal exam. You can have lots of fun with this. You should have enema gear on hand, including single bulbs that you can buy from the chemist, but if you are confronted by a dirty asshole ... send them home.

• I wear a camping head torch during pegging to provide more light on the subject, and also wear one when I DM. I suggest hostesses have one to hand. A quick bright light when doing your anal inspections will illuminate any potential trouble spots (such as anal fissures or hemorrhoids), and you can also use them during the scene to check for small spots of blood.

• Be warned, some men lie about having done a full enema (another reason to keep it to people you know and trust) and for deep pegging a single bulb enema is definitely not enough.

• And men aren't the only ones, LOL. l I've also had women lie about having pegging experience. They then cheerfully let rip with a big dry dildo in a tight asshole, and you as hostess spend the evening doing aftercare and dealing with unexpected blood play.
  
  What I now suggest is that hostesses get the ...er ... ball rolling at parties by doing their first pegging session on a massage table in the main room while they keep the general conversation in the room going, so that other guests can see how it's done (ie, wearing latex gloves / how much lube / anal foreplay / slow entry ... how to clean up at the end etc).
  
  You might like to refer your over enthusiastic novice peggers to my BDSM For Beginners post on Everything You Wanted to Know About Strap On Sex *grin*.
  

• Have a finite finish party time (say, 1am) at which time the music goes off and the lights go up. Otherwise you'll have stragglers there all night, which will delay your clean up and may add to your venue rental costs.
  

• Hosting these events is hard work. You need to allocate a slave or two (depending on the number of guests) to keep the rubbish bins empty, clean up empty condom / lube wrappers, pick up used towels, place clean sheets on the bed in the private area, hand around snacks and drinks etc.

• Don't plan to do too much pegging yourself, at least at your first couple of events. As I am sure you know, it's hard work even when you do it at home with a known play partner. Doing it with strangers really ups the ante. Keep your energy for a particular person or a scene you've planned.

Have fun ... both the hostesses reading this, and the males who are already fantasizing!

Photos:
Ms160 of sol
Ms160 of Tawse Manor
Uncredited Pegging Party image from Newfound Fetish blog

Storing sol's "frillies"

Sol is establishing quite a wardrobe of female clothing.

While I direct him to wear certain items for erotic humiliation sometimes, the component of "forced feminization" in our D/s relationship has morphed into something unique over the years.

Sol enjoys wearing certain items when I give permission, like the Victoria Secret's satin slip and the old fashioned kitchen apron in the photo above that he is wearing while preparing dinner. We also enjoy shopping together for items that are ... pretty on him ... for want of a better expression. He likes looking .... pretty. As well, a project like the "24/7 Bra Experiment" (which has been going more than a year now) has greatly increased the amount of bras he requires.

We live in a single room dwelling, with little storage. But we were facing a crisis where we had to store clothing for three people - two women and a man - when there was only two of us in residence!

Sure, we could store things in 55L plastic storage bins (where a lot of our clothes are) but that made it hard to access ... and we were talking about clothes sol - or myself, if I was selecting his daily lingerie - needed to access every day.

We were obviously having a drawer crisis! Luckily at just the right time we found an old second hand set of bedside drawers at a local village market, for about $50. We put them in the back seat of the car (the Xmas Present had to sit on my lap going home) and once home, I cleaned them very carefully. They came up sort of white.

Living in a small space makes new furniture tricky to assimilate. I ended up placing the drawers under a rather lovely hand painted box which stores my own special lingerie:


This gave me six whole new spaces to store sol's stuff! I put some thought into what went where. The top drawer on the right side now stores sol's knicker collection:


The second drawer holds his bras and "falsies":


The third, his garter belts, stockings etc:


On the other side, the top drawer contains bed clothes (nighties, pjs), while the second drawer contains a mix of female clothing items: shorts, tops etc.


... oh and also his cooking and formal Femdom tea party aprons. The bottom drawer contains several rather large black dildos and various types of lube. Which again makes them easy to access.

So my husband's "pretties" take up five drawers. All this amuses me greatly because my own everyday lingerie is stored in a single drawer! And of course since I took these photos we've been shopping a few times. Oh oh. Might need even more drawers soon....

Photos:
Ms160

Outdoor Play Weekend, Goulburn

Silvertail and Ms160 "plowing" with sol
(photo courtesy: NotExcessive)

Last weekend we attended an Outdoor Play weekend, organized by Silvertail and jewels at MzBlackRose's new rural venue near Goulburn, NSW.

This was the first weekend of it's kind at this particular venue, but I'm sure it will be the first of many. Silvertail and jewels had written on the Fetlife event page:

"It is our intention to provide a venue and opportunity for each individual to be able to immerse themselves in their outdoor kink/fetish in an open, accepting and totally secluded environment...

"This location is 15 minutes drive from Goulburn and is centrally located between Canberra, Sydney and Wollongong. The property comprises of approximately 300 acres of open space to cater for any outdoor kink fetish you may have been harboring"

They weren't kidding about that "any outdoor kink fetish you may have been harboring" bit. Lots of different activities were on offer:

*Pony Play
*Pet Play
*Sub Hunt / Pursuit Games
*Peg out your sub under the stars
*Torture & Torment in the great outdoors
*Immerse yourself in character/mindset/persona for 36 hours
*BDSM 4WD - Find a tree for outdoor bondage
*Bonfire on Saturday Evening
*Last chance to enjoy outdoor play before the cold weather.
*Swimming in the Dam
*Nudity and Fetish wear totally accepted in this kink friendly totally PRIVATE environment

Pony play was linked to:

"Ponygirl_Shyanne [who] has kindly offered and donated her time to be available to anybody wishing to know more about pony play and training. She has ... offered to supply equipment for those who wish to try this fetish. There will be a pony cart for those adventurous ones who wish to take a leisurely buggy ride around the acreage"

And the sub hunting bit was me:

"Mistress160 is coming in from the Northern Regions of our state for this weekend and will be available to discuss with any interested parties over the two days about a pursuit and capture mini event and take downs"

*grin*

Unfortunately Ponygirl_Shyanne was unable to attend and the pony play element of the weekend - which was the original motivation for the event - fell through. However MzBlackRose is planning to hold monthly pony play meets on the site, which I think will be a great idea. I'll add a link in here, when more details are announced.

Sol and I put the Xmas Present into storage and drove 14 hours to Canberra on Thursday, did Canberra things on Friday ... then headed off to the Outdoor Play Weekend on Saturday morning. We'd been given very clear instructions on how to find the property, and a familiar symbol greeted us on the gate:


We then followed the red tags through the paddocks:


Until we reached the camp site:


If you looked the other way, you'd see the campsite was located near a dam:


Silvertail and jewels had very kindly lent us a tent:


Even more kindly, the tent was already up when we arrived ... we'd received a wonderful “NOTICE OF ERECTION” message via Fetlife to advise of this fact a few days earlier! So all we had to assemble on the day was our airbed:


We didn't have sleeping bags but we did have lots of warm bedding and sheepskins to keep us warm:


Which we needed, believe me.

We socialized during the afternoon. There were lots of new people to meet, including some who were new to the scene, so lots to talk about. That evening there was a huge bonfire. Sol and I crashed early, as we were still recovering from the long drive, but sounds of merriment and the odd cane swish continued well into the night...

Next day was fairly brisk at dawn and we all gathering around the fire again for breakfast. The weather was perfect - cool, clear and sunny, and mostly without wind. That proved a fiendish mix for quite a few of us, who all showed the effects of the sun the next day!

It was important to Silvertail and jewels that the Outdoor Play Weekend provide an environment where everyone felt comfortable expressing their own form of kink, and I think they were successful in this. One of the things I really enjoyed over the weekend was watching how some couples disappeared for a bit of play, while others played closer to camp:


I actually took the photo above to show NotExcessive and Sir_O2DV8 assembling crops for the wonderful "crop circle" photo NotExcessive later posted on Fetlife. However you'll note I've also captured the interesting games being played in the background...

We'd forgotten our crop (that's a first) but I dug out two other favorite corporal punishment implements - the Central Asian horsewhip and the rawhide cane. Here's Sir_O2DV8 and Master_Peterau "testing" them on Sir_O2DV8's slave vixencunt:


I also lent the implements to LadyCBTwhip-bmp, who later said she found them useful as part of this scene *evil grin*.

We had a serious horse moment when the property owner's race horses galloped by (see top left of the photo below ... sorry it's out of focus, I only had one chance to capture them on film):


And sol and I got to explore a little "animal play" when I invited sol to express his inner ... er ... cow? NotExcessive took these terrific photos of me "plowing" with sol:

(photo courtesy: NotExcessive)

And of Silvertail (who had just returned from a scene staking jewels out ... we could glimpse her on the ground, in the distance - where she had requested to remain for a while - covered with brightly colored parachute silk that swayed and danced in the breeze) and myself, with sol:

(photo courtesy: NotExcessive)

Sol posted later: "Still picking bits of rope fibre from between my teeth"!!! (snugglepot posted on the same thread "You looked absolutely stunning, Mistress160". Nice new friend snugglepot :) )

Lunch (a scrumptious meal of saffron pasta and duck ragu from the Canberra Farmer's Market, prepared by sol ... kinky camping is so tough these days... ) was followed by a few more hours talk and play. Then sadly it was time to pack up:


Here I am closing the gate as we left:


NotExcessive and bella_donna had generously offered us a bed Sunday night, before the long drive home on Monday. So a few hours later we were well washed (their shower is heavenly), well fed, tucked up in their extremely comfortable guest room bed ... and uploading photos and reading comments on Fet about the weekend just gone...

As jewels wrote later:

"The[se] few days [were] an experience for ... people with the bravado to step outside of the conformity of society and open minded enough to live for a few days the way their imagination wished life could be"

And other attendees definitely felt this. Masterspussycat wrote about the weekend:

"Cut off from the rest of the world, no problems,no bills, no emails, no phone calls, no judgments and no inhibitions.

There is now a greater bond that grows daily fueled by the intense connection that comes from being away from the world and being able to focus on one another wholely and completely.

An understanding that is strengthened by trust that is given.

A depth of longing that is created by 'what can be and now is'...."

Two other new friends later responded to Masterspussycat:

"mpc.. beautiful words.. i had the same sort of experience. There will be a next time where we can do this again.. there has to be! It was a really wonderful weekend experience" (snugglepot)

"mpc.... I totally agree. Food for the body and food for the soul. Thank you for putting into words the essence of the weekend, which was one of liberty to be who we are, as we are, and why we are with no inhibitions" (LadyCBTwhip-bmp)

As for sol and myself, we caught up with old friends, met many new ones ... and look forward very much to returning.

But the weekend also reminded us why we began our eco kinkster lifestyle three years ago, and made our very private home - where we can always "be who we are, as we are, and why we are with no inhibitions" (LadyCBTwhip-bmp) and "live ... the way their imagination wished life could be" (jewels) - a very precious place to return to on Monday night :)

Thank you:

Silvertail and jewels
for organizing the event :)

MzBlackRose
for sharing her great new venue

NotExcessive and bella_donna
for their extremely kind
hospitality on Sunday night

Photos:
NotExcessive
Ms160