Ten Inch Strap On Dildo - Second Session

Sol had yesterday at home as it was Australia Day, so to celebrate we had our second session with the Ten Inch Dildo, fondly known as Super Cock II.

Regular readers will remember Super Cock came into our lives about a month ago:

Photo courtesy: Bondara

We'd ordered it from Bondara after being inspired by our friend poppet's delightful Christmas Stuffing post. You can read about the toy itself in this post, and about our first session with it here. It was proving a challenge to use ... but that's fine, we enjoy challenges!

So yesterday afternoon sol did his enema routine (more about enemas here) and we had a rest. Then it was time for sol to place condoms on the toys we planned to use and to lie face up on the massage table. I suspended his feet from the spreader bar attached above, providing clear access to his ass (you'll find photos of previous play in similar positions here and here). I usually restrain his hands but this time I didn't, so he folded them on his chest.

Well he TRIED to fold them on his chest ... it proved tricky because I was in the middle of placing all the dildos and vibrators on his tummy:


Look at the grin on the man ... is he high on anticipation, or what?! So he ended up placing his hands over the top of his bra!

Back to those toys. Here's that photo on it's side so you can see them more clearly:


We gazed at them in awe.

We'd learned from our first session that getting Super Cock into sol was possible but that we needed to do additional stretching exercises and lubrication etc as we'd experienced a little bleeding after our first attempt. To deal with this sol had worn a butt plug during part of the time I was in New Zealand, and had applied Vaseline to the area daily.

We'd negotiated that today I'd start with my gloved, lubed fingers, then move to the small pink vibrator. Once sol was relaxed we'd start on the three black dildos (that we bought from Black Rabbit Premium Leather - post here) and then perhaps, seeing how things were going, have a try for Super Cock.

However when I began to apply lube with my fingers he winced. Oh oh. Not good...

A quick check of his anus, with extra light directed from the head torch I wore on my forehead, showed that while the torn area from last time had healed, the tear had been in a very vulnerable spot. So we had to proceed very very carefully. With lots of lube.

Luckily this had just arrived:


J Jelly is pre-mixed J-Lube and we'd been looking forward to trying it out. This session was certainly going to show if the stuff was as good as people say.

I again lubed up my gloved fingers and carefully inserted them into sol, followed by the small vibrator:


I used the lubed gloves to masturbate sol while he enjoyed the vibrator. After five minutes it was time for the smallest of the three black dildos:


I've found it best with sol to half insert a dildo, then remove it completely, re-lube it and try again. It always seems to go in more comfortably this way. Soon sol was happily plugged:


I fucked him a little but he really is much too comfortable with that sized dildo, so soon it was time to try the second black dildo:


Before inserting this I squatted down beside the massage bed and again examined his anus carefully. He was not bleeding and the J Jelly seemed to be working extremely well. But the just healed area looked swollen, with tiny veins throbbing close to the surface.

Curses. I didn't think he could take much more stretching without a tear happening. And that would stop our Super Cock explorations, until he healed. We've played rough anal rape games in the past, but we had a different agenda this time: getting that stretching and lubrication right for Super Cock. The irony was we'd get there sooner if we didn't use Super Cock this play session. I knew sol was going to make a lot of noise about it LOL but, well, Mistress is always right.

I reapplied lube to sol's anus, the dildo and my fingers, and began to work the dildo inside him. He had a bit of trouble with this but soon it was in place:


I quickly took off my gloves and took some photos, then with a new pair on I began - very carefully - to fuck him with the dildo:


Before I broke the bad new to him I masturbated him for a few minutes:


"I don't think it would take long for you to come", I said. He agreed.

To sweeten the fact we were not going to attempt the two biggest dildos I said "when we finish up here, you can wear the smallest black dildo over night, and if you can do that you can come in the morning". He again agreed ... but a few moments later asked what he could do to get to come tonight.

I grinned.

Just at that moment one of his balls vanished inside him, and as his hands were not restrained I gave him permission to push them both back down:


This gave me an idea. "You may masturbate yourself while I fuck you", I said, "and I may let you come .... possibly....!"

The next few minutes were lots of fun, as we moved our hands - on cock and ass - in matched strokes:


I was even able to take this one photo while we did this, but missed the come shot!

He came after asking permission, and while thanking me for fucking him.

After I removed the dildo I checked him again. No blood. Brilliant. That means we can attempt session three soon, and may even get to use the biggest beasts then...

Photos:
bondara - 10 inch strap on dildo product photo
Ms160

Sol's present from New Zealand

I mentioned in an earlier post that Sirspuss had taken TheSickMuse and myself to a wonderful and weird store near where they live in New Zealand, and that I'd purchased some terrifically silly presents there. These included this present for Steve_C:


A pair of elephant shorts, with the elephant's trunk in a strategic spot allowing one to measure one's bits. Well, sol's present focused on a different part of his anatomy:


He really laughed when he saw them, and quickly had them blown up and ... er ... installed:


He's been wearing them quite a bit. Here he is cooking dinner:


So definitely a successful present!

Thank you again puss for taking us there :) I look forward to a return trip when we both come over at Easter for Southern Exposure.

Photos:
Ms160

Ms160 attends some NZ parties...

I was lucky enough to be in New Zealand for a couple of parties ... although I've not yet forgiven Steve_C for scheduling his M*A*S*H at Tawse Manor party for the weekend after I left (photos here and here and here on Fet).

The first was a swingers party at Tawse Manor. Wiki says:

"Swinging or partner swapping (sometimes referred to as the swinging lifestyle or simply the lifestyle) is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship agree, as a couple, for both partners to engage in sexual activities with other people, sometimes referred to as recreational or social sex.

Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from a spontaneous sexual activity at an informal social gathering of friends to a swingers' club and can involve internet-based introduction services.

While swingers and kinksters tend to be quite different in terms of culture and philosophy, there is some overlapping between swinger and BDSM communities, and it's that overlapping area that interests Steve_C and Sirspuss. As the Tawse Manor website confirms:

"Your hosts have been a regular Host Couple at Club SE for some time. As Club SE is currently out of action, post the September 2010 Christchurch earthquake, we are now running swinger nights at Tawse Manor"

I believe they've held about half a dozen parties at their home since the earthquake, and they were expected a good number of guests this particular party, including several new guests. I had listened to Steve_C on the phone to one of these new guests earlier in the week. He had provided lots of information and been very reassuring and if I'd been thinking of attending my first swingers event he certainly would have made me feel comfortable.

So what's involved with this type of party? As Will Turner writes in "Throwing a Swinger Party for the First Time"

"Hosting a swinger party is actually not much more different from hosting any other kind of party except that a swinger’s party is more oriented toward sexual encounters. Whenever hosting any party the host’s main concern should be making their home a pleasant place for people to enjoy themselves and have fun. After all, the host is inviting guests into a part of their lives."

I learned a lot about what was involved from my hosts, and really enjoyed helping a little with some of the preparations. Party rules were pinned up in one or two places. The house was cleaned and tidied, as were outdoor areas like the spa:


I loved thoughtful details like placing towels for the spa on heated towel racks near the spa. Snacks and drinks were organized by puss and The Sick Muse.

The bathroom was spotless, drawers and cupboards filled with anything guests could need, from super sized to snug condoms, to different types of lube, new soap, toothbrushes and razors, hair ties, shampoos etc as well as short black robes that guests could change into upon arrival if they desired.

Spare guest rooms (those that didn't have a guest staying in them, like me) were stripped back to the bare minimum, with elegant black sheets and lots of condom and lubes provided in each room:


The same black sheets covered mattresses on the floor of other larger rooms, where vanilla porn was played on a large screen (I kept complaining to Steve_C that it was boring!).

A very clever idea was putting up gauze curtains over the doors of rooms open to party guests. This not only differentiates party spaces from private spaces (which are also given signage), it also gives a little privacy to those outside and those looking in:


And privacy is important. For example, if you wanted to put your name of their mailing list you wrote it on the pieces of paper you can see below...


And then placed the paper in the box, thus keeping everyone's personal details private.

And because privacy is so important you're not going to get any more details about what when on. Sorry! What I'll do is quote from Claire Halliday's article "Sex in the suburbs" ( The Age July 6 2003)

"Within half-an-hour, the lounge, dining room and even the kitchen empty as the crowd retire to the bedrooms...

"By 12.30pm the threesome are the evening's star attraction. They choose the back area, take a position in the centre of the mattresses and, in a curious meshing of human skin, proceed to have sex with a young couple they have partnered before.

"The co-ordination of five bodies, is, at times, a gorgeous, intensely choreographed ballet. With the addition of a crowd gathered all around them, the mood is sexually charged. The music suddenly seems louder, the air warmer, the smell of mingling pheromones almost overpowering. I sit on the step and watch. If they notice the dozen or more people doing similarly they don't seem to mind. Brad will tell me later though that, for him, at least, it's not about the others watching. I'd prefer they weren't there.

"Others though, clearly like the voyeuristic angle. A position on the mattress next to this five-some is suddenly the hottest ticket around. Couples on either side stop what they are doing to watch and slide up closer so that their own skin brushes against that of Melissa, Peter, Brad and their two friends.

"There is a moment when the mood becomes so overwhelmingly erotic that I forget I am surrounded by slightly sweaty people, some with hands on body parts, panting a slow rhythmic background to the display of sex only a couple of metres away..."

To be perfectly honest I didn't get to see much (although I heard quite a bit!) because I was working in my room, taking phone calls etc.

Also at one point I spent quite some time looking at really great pony play photos that Photo had taken recently and wanted to show me. These we both really enjoyed discussing - the images were terrific and I admired the female dominant in them very much. Usually when I look at pony play images my attention immediately goes to the pony, but in this case the "trainer" was especially wonderful to watch, so confident and calm, all amid a magical outdoor setting.

I mention this because those photos became important the next day.....

On Saturday it was back to all things kinky. Steve_C, The Sick Muse, Photo and myself drove out to the farm owned by Sagamore and AfricanEclipse. It was a beautiful place, and there was something about it that recalled for me the farming landscape around where sol and I live ... this wasn't a coincidence as Sagamore later told me he had owned a property near us in the Northern Rivers :)

I met so many new people at the party. I was trying to keep names and faces in order when suddenly Photo introduced me to the trainer I had seen in his pony play photos. What luck. And even better, the trainer and her pony turned out to be Xanthi and Rivendell, who I have long admired. I spent a brilliant half an hour or so going through Rivendell's scrapbook with them, which documented almost his entire history.

After this I asked if anyone would come for a walk with me around the farm, and Xanthi agreed. She also very kindly lent me some gumboots. We started our walk through this kind of landscape:

Then made our way down the hill, into paddocks with cows and goats:

Very very pregnant goats at that:

We made jokes when we passed through gates, about how you can always spot kinkster farmers by their use of carabiners:


And then as we walked through another grove of trees we made a discovery:


A tiny kid had just been born a day or so ago, and appeared to have been deserted by her mother. After a look for the missing mom - all the goats were back in the field on the far side of the farm - we gathered up the kid (she was shaking with cold and extremely loud in her complaints) and headed back to the house:


Turns out we did the right thing as Sagamore had not known the mother of the kid was pregnant, and she may well have died if her mother had not remembered to fetch and feed her. Happily, when Sagamore and AfricanExclipse introduced the little kid to the rest of their goats, the mother recognized the kid and allowed her to feed.

Meanwhile back at the house, Steve_C and TheSickMuse were enjoying second childhoods and chasing chickens:


Steve_C really had this mother chook pissed off ... check out the way she's looking at him *grin*:


The boys then moved on to bigger toys - their singletails:


Here Rivendell is enjoying some attending from Steve_C:


Play was also picking up in other corners of the house, including Obi who was rigging in the farm's shed. I've not yet asked permission to reproduce his photos so you'll need to wander over to Fetlife to see what he was up to. I'm certainly looking forward to seeing him work again when he presents at Southern Exposure.

Sadly we had to leave early as I was flying out at 6am the next morning (which required a 4am start) but it will be great to meet everyone again when sol and I return for Southern Exposure in April.

REFERENCES AND ONLINE RESOURCES ON SWINGING

Fetlife group - "Swingers is not a bad word"

Claire Halliday "Sex in the suburbs" ( The Age July 6 2003)

Will Turner writes in "Throwing a Swinger Party for the First Time"

List of Australian swingers parties

Swingers Sydney - includes a page on BDSM Swinging

Wiki Swinging

Thank you's to:

Steve_C and Sirspuss
for their generous hospitality

Sagamore and AfricanEclipse
for kindly letting me reproduce photos of their home

Xanthi
for permission to reproduce photos of herself and Rivendell
and especially for the gumboots!

Steve_C
for permission to reproduce photos of himself

Photos:
Ms160

Interested in a box frame?

My friend Tonbi has a very good box frame up for sale:

Unfortunately due to moving to another state I am having to part with my much loved and very versatile box frame. It is hand built by myself and bolts together so can be set up in any room it fits in. The outside dimensions are 2.6m x 2.6m x 2.6m. It also doubles as a punching bag frame and is extremely sturdy.

Price $1000.00AUD and will need to be picked up, cause I'm not gift wrapping it hehe.

Feel free to shot me any questions.

I don't usually put up stuff like this but Tonbi just posted:

Please spread the word otherwise it may end up being firewood instead of a cool piece of play equipment

Definitely NOT a good option, so please check out his Fetlife profile and photos that feature the frame.

Redefining luscious...

I mentioned in my first post about my stay with Steve_C and Sirspuss (conveners of Southern Exposure) at Tawse Manor in Christchurch, New Zealand, that I was desperate to pick strawberries from puss' wonderful garden.

Here's puss' strawberry patch:

Well, finally on Friday I was finally able to join puss picking these lovely berries. We picked an entire ice cream container full. Each was perfect. Here's The Sick Muse holding one of the larger ones:


And here local photographer Photo is helping me arrange the strawberries:


Into this final shot:


And after that .... we ate them :)

They tasted absolutely wonderful. I'm serious - they redefined my whole concept of the term "luscious". They were almost better than sex or play ... which means I need to start thinking of some interesting ways to combine all three!

Photos:
Ms160
with stylistic input from Photo :)

New Zealand escapades...

You'll remember I noted in my New Year post:

"You know how they say, however you spend New Year is how the rest of your year will be? ... if that's the case sol and I have lots of serious kinky times with good friends and great food, to look forward to in 2011 :)"

Well, so far the year is going very nicely indeed.

Last Tuesday sol drove me up to Brisbane airport. You could certainly see and smell evidence of the recent flooding disaster but at least the airport was open. I was headed to Christchurch, New Zealand, and my pre flight munchie was this tiny, pretty cupcake:

Apart from being one very nice mouthful, why am I showing you this? Because it reminded me of the time I turned sol into a birthday cake, covered with mini cupcakes:

So here I was, dreaming of cupcakes and heading to New Zealand.

I was heading over to stay with Steve_C and Sirspuss, the conveners of Southern Exposure, New Zealand's first BDSM conference. Southern Exposure has been on twice now, and I've always promoted and supported it, even if we couldn't travel to attend it. As I wrote in my post Gathering post:

"The first BDSM conference on this side of the planet was Southern Exposure:

"November 2006 saw the first Southern Exposure Conference held in Christchurch. It was an outstanding success with 100 delegates and a full programme of 21 workshops from an impressive lineup of top international and local presenters. Based on that success the organisers decided to stage further conferences every two years."

The second one was held in 2008. The third, this year's, has been postponed (due to recent earthquakes which damaged the conference venue) until Easter 2011. An ongoing event like this is very impressive ... and very hard work. All kudos to the organizers. You can read a great article about the 2008 conference on TheFetishistas here..."

(that's the old logo, by the way, the new one is this:)

TheFetishistas article was very complementary:

"Southern Exposure is still growing and many of the happy sweating and bleeding attendees, were new to it. SteveC and his partner Puss can be proud of staging a totally awesome and very professional event that many feel stands comparison with longer established fixtures in the international world of kink"

And so was Midori, who was a presenter at both the previous conferences and who wrote a great article about the conference and New Zealand scene, titled Kangaroo Leather and Kiwi Kink which includes this great quote:

"Southern Exposure in Christchurch kicked off my tour-de-kink - a sizable group gathered at a lovely hotel for a weekend of classes, socializing and playing. This newborn event was birthed fully formed as a well-thought-out, carefully organized happening with intelligence and heart"

I had long wanted to attend the next "well-thought-out, carefully organized happening with intelligence and heart" and in fact had been the first to put myself on Southern Exposure's Fetlife event page, the moment Steve_C listed it. I was delighted when The Gathering (which I was helping with) and Southern Exposure joined forces last year (a great way to cut huge international airfares for presenters, for a start) and really was distressed for the organizers when Christchurch's earthquake meant the conference had to postponed.

It was rescheduled for Easter 2011. Shortly after, Steve_C invited me to present at the conference. Now I was on my way over to stay with Steve_C and Sirspuss for a few days, and help a little with pre-conference organizing. I was going to do this in some comfort because Steve_C and Sirspuss run Tawse Manor, an "alternative home stay":

"We’re located in rural North Canterbury, 30 minutes from the center of Christchurch and just 20 minutes from Christchurch International Airport.

"We have three comfortable guest rooms available, in a warm, modern house, set in spacious and private grounds. You’re able to hide from the troubles of the world and unwind, in a relaxed and friendly environment.

"We offer a twist or two as well... how many places give their guests a key to a private adult themed fully air conditioned play space?"

Thank God it wasn't snowing as shown in that lovely photo I just swiped from their website, the weather during my trip (between storms) looked like this:

You can see some of the rooms here. My room has this lovely Forever Young sculpture (details here):

And the garden is just a delight:

Steve_C and Sirspuss are as manic about BDSM education as I am (which is why we are all mad and get involved with huge loony undertakings like BDSM conferences) and hold lots of interesting educational events at Tawse Manor, including weekend intensives (for example, this one with Laura Antoniou, just after The Gathering. Actually it was the weekend Southern Exposure would have been on if the earthquake hadn't closed the hotel venue). We have a weekend intensive idea that I might come back over to help with, but that's a story for later...

I'm writing this half way through my stay.

I've enjoyed meeting Steve_C and Sirspuss. Apart from wanting to meet them to commend them on the conference, I've often admired their style of play (a rather hot photo on Fet here) and of course puss's genital jewelry is so exquisite I send friends links to her photos. puss is a lady of great style and taste (even hotter Fet photo of her cross dressing here) but I have to be honest here, I love her best for...

Her veggie patch.

You can laugh, but I'm seriously jealous. She has the best veggie patch that I've ever had the joy to hang out in. Here's her strawberry area, for a start:

I'm utterly desperate to get in and pick some, but one thing I've learned as a newbie veggie grower is that you don't go picking stuff without the grower's permission! Here's me picking (pre negotiated) beans for dinner:

And of course everywhere I go in the veggie patch I am accompanied by:

Malteser! Who is excellent company:


Malteser is one of three cats, all three of which I've enjoyed getting to know. So did Midori during her visit, as you can see from her drawing in the Guest Book:

Midori hasn't met Malteser, who joined the household after her visits. I look forward to seeing Midori's version of her :)

We've worked hard on finalizing the conference program:


I'll share more about that with you when Steve_C uploads the final program on the website, but I really think it's got lots of interesting workshops I'd look forward to attending. I wrote in my post Gathering post that:

"Southern Exposure has a real "conference" structure similar to The Gathering. In 2008 it featured two full days of workshops - nine sessions a day, spread over three concurrent sessions or streams. This format will be repeated at the next conference, over Easter 2011"

But in fact there are now four streams, so it's the same as The Gathering. To sustain us during all this work puss created this pie out of veggie patch berries:


It didn't last long:


Then last night we had another wonderful meal, prepared by The Sick Muse: Asian Inspired Beef with Noodle Salad. Lots of chili and lime and fresh veggies straight from the garden.

Today puss, The Sick Muse and I visited the local village shopping area, getting supplies for tonight's swingers party and allowing me a quick explore. Puss took us to one of her favorite seriously weird stores, where I not only got a terrific present for sol that I'll share with you later, I also got a present for Steve_C:


It's a pair of elephant shorts, with the elephant's trunk in a strategic spot allowing one to measure one's bits. I was hoping he'd wear them for the swingers party but alas he didn't agree!

Yes, I said "swingers party" again, and after that there's a kinky party out at a friend's place. And then it's time to head home...

So I was right about the New Year containing lots of good food and kinky friends!

Back soon....

ASIAN INSPIRED BEEF WITH NOODLE SALAD

This dish is based on a classic. The beef and dressing can be prepared the day before and assembled before serving. Adjust the chili to your taste.

Ingredients:
1/2kg to 2 kg eye fillet trimmed of fat and sinew
1 tablespoon peanut oil or vegitable oil
1 zucchini or courgette chopped finely
some red capsican or red pepper, chopped and fried
fresh corn cut from the cob

For the dressing:
4 cloves garlic, crushed
8 teaspoons sugar
6 tablespoons soy sauce
6 tablespoons fish sauce
6 tablespoons lime juice plus finely grated zest of one lime (or lemon)
1 small bunch of spring onions, finely sliced
4 red chillis seeded finely chopped
1 tablespoon chopped coriander

To serve:
500 gr soba noodles

• preheat oven to 210C
• heat large hot plate or frying pan over high heat
• rub beef with oil and brown on all sides
• place in a shallow baking dish and bake for 18-20 min until medium rare
• cover loosely with foil and a tea towel
• leave to rest and cool
• mix all dressing ingredients together in a bowl until combined, set aside
• bring a large saucepan of water to the boil add noodles and cook until al dente
• drain and rinse in cold water to cool
• place in bowl and toss with half the dressing
• divide noodles amongst plates
• thinly slice beef and arrange over noodles
• spoon over enough dressing to moisten meat
• top with a few pea shoots

Thank you:
Steve_C and Sirspuss
for their very generous hospitality
and many kindnesses
The Sick Muse
for the seriously good food and the recipe