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Wednesday, June 15, 2011

SlutWalk in Sydney - June 13



Plans to drive to Sydney to attend Sydney's SlutWalk unfortunately got derailed but all praise to those who braved the wet weather last Monday:


Here's Vincent Morello's "Sydney SlutWalk small but powerful" article (June 13, 2011 AAP):

"Sydney's SlutWalk protest had a low turnout but the message was loud and clear: women's dress is not an invitation for sexual assault...

"A rainy Queen's birthday long weekend seemed to deter the thousands who had thrown their support behind the Monday event on the SlutWalk Sydney Facebook page. Most of the 200-odd people who gathered at Town Hall were rugged up for winter conditions.

"Some women were scantily clad and many men in attendance were dressed in women's clothes. They carried signs with the slogans: "Proud and happy slut", "Blame rapists not boobs" and one woman had written on her breasts: "Can't touch these without consent".

"SlutWalk organiser Samadhi Arktoi gave a brief speech to the crowd before leading the protest through the CBD. "We're here today to declare that slut-shaming and victim-blaming have to stop," Ms Arktoi said. "We're here because we know that whatever the circumstances, sexual assault is never the fault of the victim."

"The protesters marched to police headquarters, at Surry Hills, which caused traffic delays but received broad support from onlookers. Three men drinking outside a pub told AAP: "We think it's great". The protesters chanted a number of slogans including: "One, two, three, four, we won't take the blame no more. Five, six, seven, eight, consensual sex is f***king great." One woman who had her young son with her said the protest was crucial to airing the issue. "We need to make this public," she told AAP.

"The march ended at Harmony Park, next to police HQ, where a number of people gave speeches impassioned from their personal experiences of sexual assault. Nina Funnell, a member of the NSW Premier's Council in Preventing Violence Against Woman, said she was grabbed and sexually assaulted four years ago while walking down a street in her neighbourhood. Days later she viewed a line-up of suspects. "Two middle-aged male police officers standing behind me had a conversation about how young women these days don't understand the trouble that they get themselves into," Ms Funnell told the crowd. Wife and mother Anni Piper told the crowd that legal proceedings recently concluded into allegations she was repeatedly sexually assaulted as an adolescent. "During the course of the trial, I was questioned for an entire eight days," Ms Piper told the crowd. "The effect on me was profound and the alleged offender was found not guilty."

"SlutWalk events have been held in cities around the world and began in Canada in April after a male Toronto police officer said publicly that women should avoid dressing "like sluts" in order not to be victimised. In May, thousands took to the streets during Melbourne's SlutWalk"

I think this stunning photo is from the London march:


How could any kinkster not join this rallying call:
"We are asking you to join us for SlutWalk, to make a unified statement about sexual assault and victims’ rights and to demand respect for all. Any gender-identification, any age. Singles, couples, parents, sisters, brothers, children, friends. Come walk or roll or strut or holler or stomp with us Whether a fellow slut or simply an ally, you don’t have to wear your sexual proclivities on your sleeve, we just ask that you come.

We are tired of being oppressed by slut-shaming; of being judged by our sexuality and feeling unsafe as a result. Being in charge of our sexual lives should not mean that we are opening ourselves to an expectation of violence, regardless if we participate in sex for pleasure or work. No one should equate enjoying sex with attracting sexual assault.

Join us in our mission to spread the word that those those who experience sexual assault are not the ones at fault, without exception."

REFERENCES AND ONLINE RESOURCES


Vincent Morello "Sydney SlutWalk small but powerful" article June 13, 2011 AAP


What started the whole thing in Toronto

Wiki - Slutwalk


Slutwalk Melbourne

Video of the Sydney march



Thank you:
AAP
(Vincent Morello "Sydney SlutWalk small but powerful" article June 13, 2011)

Photos:
TNT Magazine

Sydney flyer:
From Nothing About Us Without Us

Posted by Mistress160 and solipsist at 1:26 PM
Labels: Slutwalk - Sydney 13 June 2011

1 comments:

Happy pet said...

Mistress 160 - delighted to see you are a Slutwalk supporter too. i was disappointed to miss the London march as was when Owner and i were on holiday - otherwise would have been there. Am a fan of their facebook page and have managed to get a few others to sign-up too.

Amazing when you think about it how social media has transformed this movement from something very local to a global phenomenon. So wonderful to find so many other people feel the same way.

p
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June 22, 2011 4:47:00 PM GMT+10:00

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POSTS IN PROGRESS + JUST UP + POPULAR + ALSO EVENTS COMING UP :)

BDSM FOR BEGINNERS SERIES:
* Electrical play - playing with electric fly swatters / electric paddles (incl
Reference + Online Resources list)
* BDSM / sub hunting
(not a real BDSM For Beginners post but close as I'm going to get, and has a Reference + Online Resources list)
* Chemical play
(incl Reference + Online Resources list)
* Caning
(it's not a real BDSM For Beginners post but close as I'm going to get, and has a Reference + Online Resources list)
* Urethral play
(incl
Reference + Online Resources list)
* Temperature play
(ice play + fire play + wax play +
Reference + Online Resources list)
* D/s rituals, rules and protocols (3 post series) and Birching (7 post series) are offline while I update them.

Also:
* First Contact (searching for "fine folk who understand")
(a post about attending your first ever scene event)
* The BDSM Safe Call / Silent Alarm system
(read this before meeting a stranger for play)
* Losing your D/s partner
(surviving funerals and broken power dynamics)


TOYS WE ARE HAVING FUN WITH:
* Leather riding crops
* S(A)X steel urethral dilator with lock
* A new recyled pervertable
*Jail Bird chastity device - one week review
* Jail bird chastity device - two day review
* S(A)X's five headed Wartenberg Wheel
* S(A)X: anal hook review
* Vibrating sound
*
S(A)X's rubber ball stretchers (from Oxballs)
* Fresh ginger and Dencorub!!
* S(A)X's straight rattan cane
* Sol's new S(A)X leather chaps
* InHerTube's Chain Cock
* InHerTube's Shoe / Boot Harness (also here)
* S(A)X : BON4 review

* S(A)X: The Rod (delrin cane) review
*
S(A)X: sound review


PLAYING WITH FRIENDS:
To come:

* Boxing Day play with Avika De Vine
* Mardis Gras in Sydney
* Freya's Circle party

Already posted:
* CBT at Roissy - part 2
* CBT at Roissy - part 1
* Sol takes a hundred strokes for our lurkers
* ClubFEM - NSW Orientalist Tea Party
* Invitation to Roissy
* Stapling sol a new orifice with MzAntonina
* Butterfly Boarding with Avika de Vine
*
Heavy canings from Not Excessive (on sol + EDF)
* Chemical play / Urethral torture with Ms_Neta
* Nipple needle play with Daddy_K
* ClubFEM - NSW high protocol tea party with MzAntonina
* Evil things to do with staples, glue + cautery pens...
* Outdoor Play Weekend
* Chemical play + urethral torture with MzAntonina
* Marching with kinky friends in the Sydney Gay &Lesbian Mardi Gras
* CBT and needle play with
MzAntonina
* New Year's play with Katrina, Wolve and NotExcessive
* Quilling and needleplay with alexpierce

JUST US:
* Sol's Xmas orgasms (Coming Game - 6 sessions)
* Caning - 350 strokes
*
CBT with fishing sinkers + diving weights
* Our Easter Egg Hunt
* Staked Cock / Butterfly Boarding (CBT)
* CBT with Dencorub
* Ten Inch Strap On Dildo - Session 1
* Ten Inch Strap On Dildo - Session 2
* Coming Game
* Enema play
* Ball kicking
* More cock needles!

WANT TO CELEBRATE YOUR BIRTHDAY WITH US?

We recently posted about celebrating our friends' birthdays, with sol receiving the same amount of strokes as their age. We really enjoyed this and at the end of the post threw the offer open to our readers. So if you'd like us to celebrate your / your partner's birthday drop us a line via Fet.

The next birthday we will be celebrating is:

The amazing Mistress Tich on 25 Feb



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Looking for my BDSM For Beginners series? You can check out my educational blog here, while Kink Culture will keep you up to date with the fetish art / culture scene and my various articles.

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WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT MISTRESS160?

Both Ms160 and sol were interviewed in 2011 by Remittance Girl as part of the Portraits of Kink project. You'll find Ms160's interview here and sol's here. We encourage other kinksters to take part in this exceptional project.

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She was also interviewed in early 2009 by The Chastity Interviews about her interests in T&D and chastity.

Her blog also features on Keyheld; chastity resources for lovers,
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Ms160 was invited to write about herself for AlexSuze.com's The Journey series:
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Her husband solipsist's story is told as part of the same series:
"Ambiguous Borderlands: the paradox of masochism"
Part One and Part Two


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"On the subject of information, Mistress160 has an array of "BDSM for Beginners" posts that discuss just about everything, from meeting like minded people to accessory selection [you will find a list of titles in the LABELS list below]. The resources that Mistress160 uses are extensive, and kudos to her…"
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Thanks for all you do for the promotion of what I think of as "good kink," and your love of us subbies. It means more than you know"
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May may April 2008 Maybe Maimed But Never Harmed

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  • Audio Smut
  • Darkangel Postcasts
  • Dart's Domain
  • Dungeon Place (incl: Sadist podcast)
  • Ending The Sexual Dark Age
  • Erotic Awakening
  • Fem Dom Calls
  • Fetish Flame - ceased in 2007 but worth a look
  • Freedom Of Fetish
  • Graydancer's Ropecast
  • House of Tanos Podcasts, UK
  • I Want Your Sex
  • Island of Pain
  • iTunes - Podcasts - Sadist! BDSM, Kink, Fetish, Sex and the glorious Underground. by Tutivillus
  • Kink On Tap
  • Kink Podcasts
  • Kinky and the Geek
  • Kinky Sex Radio
  • KinkyCast - ceased in 2006 but worth checking out
  • Lady Lubyanka's Spleencast - ceased in 2009 but we hope for more
  • Leather Bound
  • Masocast - a New York City-based sexuality podcast that features interviews with people who identify as kinky.
  • Mistress Matisse's Podcast
  • Open Source Sex - Erotica, Sex Ed and More with Violet Blue
  • Polyamory Weekly
  • Power In Practice
  • Provocatalk Radio - brought to you by LDW Group
  • Remittance Girl : Erotic Fiction, Stories and Series
  • Savage Love Podcast
  • Smiteful Sinner
  • SpankingCast - Abel + Haron's spanking podcast
  • Subknit - A podcast for kinky knitters and anyone interested in BDSM or knitting
  • SubSpace
  • Young and Kinky

Bloggers who's writings inspire me

  • A Place to Draw Blood Laughing
  • A View from the Floor
  • Beyond The Hills
  • Blood Sex Crimson
  • Domme Chronicles
  • e[lust]
  • Kestral's Braided Jesses
  • Lazy Geisha
  • little submissions
  • Remittance Girl: Erotic Fiction, Stories and Series
  • Ruby Incarnidine
  • Scarlett Greyson Erotica
  • Sexualite
  • Solipsubmissive (an extraordinary writer)
  • supplicum post mortem
  • The Edge of Vanilla
  • The Leopards Lair (Scarlett Leopard's erotic fiction)
  • The Punishment Book
  • The Spanking Writers
  • Unspeakable Axe
  • Walking, talking
  • where stone becomes water
  • Writing Whore

Blogs by Dominants, Tops, Switches, and others who offer good advice

  • A Sick Mind for the Wicked
  • Confessions of an English Gentleman
  • Diary of a Leatherman
  • Domme Chronicles
  • E is for Eclectic
  • Evil Torturing Angel (Lady Myles)
  • Into The Dark
  • Lady Lubyanka
  • Mistress Matisse
  • Mistress Milliscent (sensuous sadistic explorations)
  • Mistress Tich's Corner (with links to NiteFlirt)
  • MWK's blog
  • MWK's site
  • Mystress Lady Evyl
  • Narrations of my D/s lifestyle
  • Punished Cuckold Husbands
  • Ruby Incarnidine
  • Sadistic Excess
  • The Enchanted Realm
  • Topologies

Blogs by switches ... just set this up, would love your help adding links here

  • Devastating Yet Inconsequential
  • One Sub's Mission (yes this is a switch blog!)
  • The Enigmatic Angel
  • The Switch Is Not a Myth

Blogs by D/s + M/s couples and poly families ... a glimpse of the way others make it work

  • ... with a sense of pride
  • 24/7 Richard and Amy
  • A Poly Life
  • a submissive's musings
  • AlexSuze
  • Alien Wombat
  • At Longing's End
  • Being Her Knight
  • Creatively Kinked
  • Delicious submission
  • Denying Thumper
  • Destiny and her pet chance
  • Devastating Yet Inconsequential
  • Down the Rabbit Hole
  • Exploring Wife Led Marriage
  • Finding Sara
  • Her Majesty's Plaything
  • Her Paddle
  • HERS FOREVER (Susan's Pet)
  • Ma'am Yes Ma'am
  • My quiet control
  • Pieces of Jade
  • poppet sub slut
  • Ramblings of a kajira
  • Serving B
  • Serving Her Majesty
  • Serving My Mistress
  • Spanking My Husband
  • Spirited Meanderings
  • stroppywenchnikki
  • Sweet Surrender
  • Tea and Oranges: love, marriage, Dominance and Submission
  • The Adventures of Kara and Jessica
  • The Adventures of Mistress and nakeysub
  • The Edge of Vanilla
  • The Heron Clan
  • To be or not to be (Mistress Susan)
  • Under His Hand
  • Under The Boot

Blogs by submissives, slaves, bottoms etc

  • ** Solipsist's submission diary (he's not filled this in for years ... he can't remember his password!)
  • a submissive's musings
  • A View From The Floor (Carrie Ann)
  • confessiones. the thoughts of a submissive in bloom
  • Dark and deviant
  • Down on my knees
  • Dragonfly Geisha
  • Explorations (QuietListen)
  • Female Slaves and Submissive Women
  • Feminism. Art. Porn. Sex
  • Hermione's Heart
  • Knotbound - an Australian submissive's story
  • Madame loves me (subThomas)
  • Male slave and submissive men
  • My Bottom Smarts
  • my second life: my journey into complete submission
  • Not Quite What I Had in Mind
  • On Being Submissive
  • Pieces of Jade
  • Poppy's Submissions
  • Pure Liquid Kink (roo-roo)
  • secret desires and whining
  • slave2MyWife
  • Slaves Days
  • solipsubmissive
  • subversive submissive
  • The h0le truth
  • Under His Hand
  • Unspeakable Axe
  • Walking The Labyrinth
  • Zille Defeu's Fetish Fantasies

BDSM - and other topics - Resources (you'll find a longer list on my BDSM For Beginners blog)

  • A slave's Heart - BDSM resources
  • A Submissive's Journey
  • Adult Blog Directory
  • Adult Blog Hub (+ great reviews by DarkScribe)
  • Adult blogster
  • Albany Power Exchange - event + info resource
  • Ambrosio's BDSM site
  • Australian Kink Events Calendar
  • BDSM Cafe - Resources page
  • caryl's Page - Resources
  • Cunning Linguists Journals
  • Fearless Press
  • Femdom Chastity
  • Femdom Search - Directory of handpicked femdom sites (this one is lots of fun!!!)
  • Femdom weblogs
  • Fire Horse Productions (Midori's erotic education)
  • Franklin Veaux's "why BDSM?" site
  • Frugal Domme - great resource pages
  • Informed Consent (if you are in the UK)
  • Janes Guide (great kinky site reviews!)
  • Kink Aware Professionals
  • Kink-E ( keep in touch with Australian kinky community happenings)
  • Leather and Roses - Resources
  • Mistress Steel's articles
  • Plagiarism Today (important for every blogger)
  • Polyfeshist Directory
  • Rope by Erinkyan
  • Slave Register
  • submissive guide
  • The BDSM Resource Center
  • The Eulenspeigel Society
  • The Iron Gate
  • Trans Melbourne Gender Project
  • withinReality - M/s and D/s lifestyle info

WHERE MISTRESS160 SPENDS TIME ONLINE:

MISTRESS160'S FORUMS

Dommes' Forum
Ms160 runs a free private, invitation only Dommes' Forum, where new Dommes are especially welcome. Drop Ms160 a line if you'd like to become part of this very special community.

Ms160's Student Forum
Past and present - and future, if you have been accepted for a popular booked up course - students are most welcome, of all kinky orientations as courses are open to everyone. Join the general discussion groups, meet other students taking your course in the private course groups, or chat with students and teachers in the attached chatrooms. Ms160 is there daily ... and several of her female dominant friends drop in now and then to keep the male subs students on their toes!

MISTRESS160'S GROUPS

Ms160 moderates special interest groups on several sites. They are all free to join.

On Fetlife:
Australia - NSW North Coast
(we hold regular munches, come and join us)
Outdoor Play
(pursuit and capture / takedown / outdoor bondage, animal play etc)
Club FEM - NSW
(want to be involved in local Femdom activities?)
Subdrop Clinic
(you don't need to be alone while experiencing drop!)
the chase addicted to the hunt
(for those who enjoy hunting humans ... and being hunted)

On MyDungeonSpace:
Forced Feminization
(where she runs her infamous cross dressing photo contests)

Erotic Sexual Denial
Erotic Humiliation
The Hunt

On KinkySpace:
Erotic Humiliation
Erotic Sexual Denial
Cross Dressing and Forced Feminization


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Commercial sites

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  • China Hamilton (erotic photography)
  • I Feel Myself (highly recommended!)
  • Polymorph Body Piercing (where sol's PA piercing was done)
  • Sax Leather (Steve Sax, Byron Bay)
  • Stockroom (sexual technology)
  • The London Tanners
  • The Piercing Urge
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