Needles, nipples + floggings with Daddy_K + wolve

Daddy_K working on sol's nipple

One of the nicest things about last weekend (which was filled with nice things :) ) was having some time with our friends Daddy_K and wolve.

wolve (who came on the scene after sol and I moved north, and became a member of the House of Wafflé, which AugustusSeizeHer discusses in his Fet profile text here) I first got to know a little through MsGawjusRedhead's phone calls. I think she was at The Gathering, but we didn't actually meet until MsGawjusRedhead's funeral and wake late last year. Whenever I see wolve pick up a cane I know MsGawjusRedhead still lives.

MsGawjusRedhead was also the link that introduced us to Daddy_K, who I first met at a Black Sash Salon in October 2008. I posted about that event:

"As always Black Sash Salons have a great relaxed atmosphere. Only twenty people attend, so it's a small enough group to sit around the living room. Some people I knew well, and it was great to catch up. Others were new to me, and I hope some will become friends. One couple was at their very first BDSM event :).

The... Black Sash topic ... was "Taking pains":

"What's the role of pain in your play? How does pain contribute to the scene? How do you process pain into pleasure or satisfaction? What techniques do you have for incorporating pain effectively, or processing it well"

As the invitation states, contributions are:

"an important part of the evening and everyone is encouraged to do so. Your contribution can take the form of: some thinking (notes, essay up to 1000 words), photos, demonstrations, performances, art, readings, conversations - anything you think will illuminate the topic.

"If it's your first time at the Black Sash Salon, feel free to wait this one out, or if you like, you can contact one of us to discuss what your contribution might be. There will be a prize for the best contribution."

"What to contribute? Pain would have been a great topic for sol, as he is wonderfully articulate in describing how pain feels to a masochist. But as I was there alone I decided to use the opportunity to discuss the challenges of living with a severe masochist and ask other dominants whether they had similar experiences, and how they met those challenges.

"This is a subject I am usually wary of raising. Terms like masochist and sadist are greatly misused in the scene - everyone wants to be one, but few truly are. On occasions when I've try to talk about such issues with other kinksters, my simply raising the subject is seen as a sign of my own inexperience, and force is offered as the solution to my "problem".

"But the group at Black Sash Salon were more experienced than that. Also there were several friends there with whom we play, who confirmed sol's high pain threshold (MsGawjusRedhead actually recalled something I'd forgotten - the time we played together when sol's asscheek muscle collapsed). As expected, the responses to my questions ranged from thought provoking to practical, with some wonderful examples of really fiendish things to do during play suggested by a new friend, Daddy_K *happy sigh*..."

When I next saw sol I was full of stories about Daddy_K, this amazing woman I'd met at Black Sash. She was the most fiendish of sadists, I told him. What did she look like, he asked, with fantasy visions of elegant tall dark vicious Dommes in black leather in mind. Er, not like that, said Ms160. Sort of small and cuddly with a great laugh. He blinked.

Finally, at another of sol's birthday weekends in Sydney (May 2009) we were able to attend another Black Sash, which Daddy_K also attended:

"My friends had a very full house on Friday. As always there were new friends to be made and old ones to greet. I was pleased to see Daddy_K, a very experienced sadist and respected member of the Australian kinky community, who has given me so many fiendish tips to torture sol.

"The discussion topic of Friday's Salon was "Making an impact: Impact play can range from the lightest flicks of a finger on bare skin through to vicious beatings. ... What does impact play do for you? Is it about the violence, the sensation, the control.. or something else?"

"We had some really great presentations on the topic, and some interesting dialogue resulted.... The last presentation was Daddy_K who did a short flogging scene with MacTheKnife. I love watching her work, she enjoys herself so much. Her face simply glows with delight. As she flogged c with a variety of implements she told us the things that made impact play work for her : the smell of leather, of sweat on the body of the sub, the importance of touch (soft and sensuous and hard as nails as she brings her hands down flat on MacTheKnife's back), and that feeling of rightness that I know so well, when you land the perfect strike, when the flogger tails fall just so...

"Afterwards I asked Daddy_K whether she might like to borrow the birthday boy for a flogging. "It's an almost virgin surface", I told her, "I've done a little flogging but I'm no expert ... he's also experienced a single tail twice (here and here)".

"If I remember rightly he's got a high pain threshold" she mused. "Oh yes", said Ms160, by which - one dominant to another - I was confirming that Daddy_K could have some fun... "

After that scene, sol understood that "short and cuddly" did equal "fiendish sadist", and believe me, he's NEVER forgotten her laugh! For the rest of that scene, including some great photos, you'll need to head here. But here's one quote from that post, which gives an idea of the kind of skills I was learning just by watching her:

"I love how Daddy_K uses her hands. I've seen some dominants do a flogging and never touch a sub. But with Daddy_K ... well it's funny ... I would have told you I took lots of photos of the scene but I don't have a single photo of her actually flogging sol (which she did perfectly, that's the only word to describe it). Instead, every photo shows her touching his back - in many different ways - between the strokes. Which sums up her technique and her delight in interacting with the canvas of the art work she is creating. And she really is an artist.

"Look at her face in these photos, readers.

"I swear to God, Daddy_K was having such a good time, it was like I'd let a gleeful fiendish pixie loose on my boy"

We met that "gleeful fiendish pixie" for dinner Thursday night in Newtown, and caught up on all her news. She and wolve were coming to the tea party on Saturday, and as wolve was serving we had a few protocol / limits / possible punishment topics to discuss.

I also wanted to ask a favor, about one of those "wonderful examples of really fiendish things to do [to severe masochists] during play" she'd mentioned the very first time we'd met.

She'd asked if I was into needle play and back then I wasn't, but I was always interested in any play ideas or techniques she wanted to share, so asked her to elaborate. She did. The resulting extremely erotic image she created in my mind, of sharp needles, and nipples, and dental floss ... well, it never went away.

Now, years later, I was more experienced with needles. The idea of recreating something that had first come alive in my mind during a Black Sash event also appealed on a weekend when we were having a tea party to remember MsGawjusRedhead. Would Daddy_K be kind enough to show me exactly how to do this technique?

Would she ever.

So we made a play date for Uberplay, after the Tea Party. Which was a pretty amazing start to our kinky day.

This was not to be our only interaction that night. MistressVelvet, who had attended MzAntonina's and my tea party, had an interest in Florentine flogging. wolve very generously offered to demonstrate her skill, and Daddy_K very generously offered some of wolve's precious play party time. They then needed a back ... so of course I loaned sol's...

Sol really enjoyed wolve's skill. He later thanked her on Fet for "a superb flogging on Saturday night :)" and he doesn't write things he doesn't mean. wolve wrote to me later that sol's long back was suited to Florentine flogging and I'm sure he'd be first in line for lots more. He can't get it from me. As I wrote said to MistressVelvet (and also said to Daddy_K when we were watching wolve flogging nightobeisance at MsGawjusRedhead's wake) I just can't do it. I don't have the rhythm. But in wolve's hands those matched floggers flowed like music.

Afterwards Daddy_K picked up her floggers, just to keep sol's attention properly focused. Sol was restrained against a structure made of metal bars. Our plan? To push him far enough to make him lift up both feet and curl them up against the bars. I think it took about 5 minutes :)

wolve then had a caning scene with MzAntonina. I helped with a tiny bit of double caning at the end, but actually I shouldn't have, because MzA was nicely warmed up and in a fast rhythm. I wasn't and I was also using an unfamiliar cane (very nice one, though). Daddy_K (who is on a private campaign to reduce sloppy playing at public play parties) quite rightly called me on one stroke that was too high, so I left wolve to MzA and went to check if the medical room was free.

It was, but our kinky camping colleague Master_Peterau arrived while I was there. I asked him how long he planned to be and he said half an hour, so I said okay, we'd be the same. He wasn't quite ready so we went in first. Huge thanks to the respectful and courteous Uber staff member (who I met at The Gathering but who's name I can't remember) who helped us set up and then very kindly provided cups of tea for Daddy_K and our tea party guests :).

He also checked for us whether we could take photos. Usually you can't of course, but I presume in the medical room staff can at least close the door, which sensibly not only stops camera flashes disturbing other players in the darkened main rooms but makes sure people who don't want to be photographed, are not accidentally included. So the following excellent photos very kindly taken by MistressVelvet are entirely thanks to him :).

In the first photo Daddy_K and I (wearing the enormous Large size gloves provided in the room!) are discussing and negotiating the needle play scene over sol's body:


We were aiming for a ring of needles around the nipple, their tips pointing it. Daddy_K said "hmmm, for most first timers I insert about 4 needles per nipple but for sol, let's start with 8". Under my hands I could feel sol sigh happily!

Daddy_K asked which gauge needle we used most at home (23.5g) so we then used those. She swabbed sol's chest with Betadine and then placed her first needle. I followed:


After the second needle I had to take the gloves off, they were so big I was getting close to getting a needle stick injury:


Then I remembered I had one last pink pair from MzAntonina's special Breast Cancer awareness box of gloves, in my black leather pilot's bag. This seemed fitting, I thought, as I snapped them on and placed my fourth needle:


And another:


Our rings of needles complete, I gave sol (who we discovered was extremely dehydrated) a glass of water:


I'm going to show the next series of photos slightly out of sequence. Daddy_K actually did this first on sol's right nipple, to show me how to do and what was going to happen. Then I did the left nipple. But I'm going to run both sets of photos together so you can follow what happened visually. First, Daddy_K showed me how to wrap dental floss around the needles:


Then we begin to tighten the floss. When I had fantasized about doing this (after Daddy_K outlined the technique at Black Sash) I had imagined the sharps driving into the nipple. And this certainly happened, with wonderful noises from sol:


However something else happens, as you kept tightening:


The needles are forced upright and into a bundle, and then driven downwards ... making the entire nipple disappear:


The rush that went through me was as intense as when I first put needles into sol's cock head. We then pulled the needle bundle out:


Daddy_K then showed us a second needle technique, where she layered four needles on sol's chest:


And then wrapped floss around them tightly:


Sol was in agony during this. He later thanked Daddy_K:

"for a vicious flogging and a wonderfully exquisite needle play scene! The bruises (from both) are delightful"

He was very proud of his marks from this scene. Here they are the first night:


And the second, where you can see the bruises are coming up very nicely on his chest:


If you turn him over you find these marks from wolve and Daddy_K's floggings. First night:


The bandaids are protecting the holes from his recent flesh hooks. You can just see the almost healed holes in the photo from the second night:


I also included this photo of sol's evening ritual obeisance the second night, because not only are the marks nice, you can also really get a sense of what wolve meant by his long back being good for Florentine flogging!:


What an amazing night sol was (we all were) having ... and it wasn't over yet...

Thank you:
Daddy_K and wolve
Really, words fail.
Thank you for so many great memories :)


Photos:
MistressVelvet (at Uber)
Ms160 (sol's marks)