Wank

I was away on a business trip for one night this week. I left sol instructions that he was allowed to remove his chastity device and masturbate that evening, but had to tell me in detail what he planned to do, before receiving final approval to come.

Later that evening he described a short scene to me, and I liked it so much we did it again when I was home. Interesting the CB6000 split apart again the day I returned home, so I think sol must have been thinking about what were planned to do!

After retiring to bed, sol knelt next to me, legs apart. This allowed me to recline and relax ... and of course play with any interesting bits that presented themselves. He was naked except for his bra and leather ball stretcher. We also had lube and Japanese clover clamps nearby.

He lubed his cock and began to masturbate for me. I watched for a while, then began to pull his balls away from his body via the ring on the ball stretcher:


He quickly reached the point of orgasm and asked permission to come. I declined, and told him to remove his hands from his cock, which strained beautifully with the ball stretcher still in place:


Still instructing him to keep his hands away, I attached a Japanese clover clamp to each nipple, clipped a carabiner (or snap link) through his PA piercing ring and then ran the chain connecting the Japanese clover clamps through the carabiner:


This gave me LOTS of places to play with...

First, I wiggled the carabiner in the PA piercing ring for a while:


Then I wiggled the chain connecting the clover clamps, placing more pressure on the PA piercing ring and sol's nipples:


I had a bit of a tug on his nipples ... just a bit:


Sol then moved so he was sitting on my legs, one leg on each side, giving me closer access... which I promptly took advantage of...

He was enjoying all this way too much, so I finally gave him permission to touch himself again, and shortly after, gave him permission to come:


I then instructed him to lick up all the mess:


That was definitely a great wank scene to play out, I'm sure we'll do it again :)

Now, off to try another type of glue for the CB-6000!

(Photos: Ms160)

Cleavage Contest closing soon!

sugarfiend
(photographer: Gemini)

Just a final reminder the Cleavage Contest closes at the end of Feb. So if you want to do any final votes (there's still time to enter photos) you need to head over to the main contest post.

And I recommend you do that, because you'll definitely want to vote for our latest entry: a lovely Valentine's photo taken by Gemini of his luscious lady sugarfiend.

Thank you:
sugarfiend

(photo: Gemini)

Surfers Paradise = ice cream + luggage bondage

We loaded The Xmas Present into the back seat and headed interstate on Sunday morning, to spend the afternoon with friends at Surfers Paradise, on the Gold Coast.

We waited for our friends downstairs at their 5 star hotel:


While we were waiting a Japanese tour bus pulled up. The tourists were not on it, they were obviously off enjoying one of the Gold Coast's many attractions. Only their luggage remained ... weirdly, all the cases were the same style, perhaps you have to agree to provide matched suitcases. It certainly made it easier for the staff to move all the group's luggage inside quickly.

Looking through the glass windows behind the XP and sol, I was rather amused to watch staff "rope" the luggage together:


Then "herd" it into a corner:


Hmmm ... a few of those nets would be useful for sub hunts, I thought. Wonder where I can acquire one?!

We then headed off with our friends for a walk around Surfer's, ending up at an ice cream place of course. Their creations were definitely worth taking photos of:


We spent a very pleasant afternoon catching up with the_engel (who I had met through ClubFEM - NSW events) and her lovely pet pvcPixie. We wanted to bundle them into the back seat with the XP and take them home for the rest of their holiday, but sadly we had to say goodbye and leave them to explore the Gold Coast's hot spots. So to speak :)

" I definitely want one of those luggage bondage nets for my birthday, please", I told sol on the drive home...

(photos: Ms160)

Bid for Bob the Bondage Bear!!

Meet Bob the Bondage Bear!

He was made by Ms Servitude, and is currently being auctioned off online to raise money for our friend Bast. You can bid for Bob online now via Slutboi's Benefit For Bast group on Fetlife - the thread is here. I'm certainly going to....

Photo: slutboi

Valentine's Day

I've been writing a BDSM For Beginner's post and also real time workshop notes about birching.

Birching is a form of play that rarely gets mentioned in the 21st century, which is strange because it's very eco friendly (for those of us kinksters interested in being green) and it's also very very hot. I grew up reading 19th century porn featuring birching scenes ... I remember fantasizing about owning a birch wrapped with velvet ribbon, for some reason that really pushed all my buttons. So some time back I decided to start researching the subject. I also discovered the fact other people were interested in learning more. Thus, the BDSM For Beginner's post and the workshop.

Part of my recent research has been trying different materials to use for birching, because birch itself can be quite hard to locate in Australia. In New South Wales, a trip to the Blue Mountains or to places like Armidale, high on the Great Dividing Range, results in fresh birch twigs, for those of us keen on this form of play. But back to my current experiment with other materials...

You can see hanging up in the photo below a birch made of palm fronds (far right) and a birch made of willow (center), which is commonly used overseas for play:


I'll put the post about birching up soon, as well as details about the next birching workshop in Sydney. But today's post is about trying out the willow birch.

I talk more about how I actually made this in the birching post, but to give a brief recap it's made of dried willow purchased from Ikea, cut in half and tied with soft cotton rope, to create a handle:


In the birching workshop everyone will get to make, and take home, one of these implements.

Now it was time to see how it worked. I'm not usually one to dress up and act out scenes but birching as a technique just cries out for a little role play. This scene I had my hair in a severe bun, and wore a tight black skirt and white shirt, my black high heels clicking across the floor ...

I then dressed sol in his little school girl skirt and short cardigan, with matching black bra and g string:


I brushed sol's hair into a ponytail, then added his Xmas hair clips to his hair:


After a few minutes massaging my feet and kissing my toes, I upended sol over the bed. I raised his skirt with the birch rods:


I applied the birch lightly at first.

Like caning / switching the blood quickly came up under the surface of the skin. The rough branches produced a nasty sting and a speckled effect on the skin:


It was a new birch and took a while to settle in my hand, the branches gently rotating a little until each was in the perfect place for maximum damage.

Once it did, I picked up the pace, with bits of twigs flying everywhere:


The end result was wonderfully mottled from the branches:


I played with sol's balls for a while, then moved on to my two favorite canes:


Afterwards I had sol lie down on the bed and removed his chastity device:


I allowed him to masturbate while I played with his nipples, then I poured some lube into his hands so that he could continue masturbating while I dragged his balls away from his body with my fingernails. He came quite quickly (but with permission, of course) and copiously:


"Well ... that was successful!" said sol, as we both lay there, happy and exhausted. I had to agree.

A very successful bit of research / experimentation! We'd definitely be using the willow birch again soon.

"Happy Valentine's Day!" I replied.

Photos: Ms160

Best Cleavage Contest - update

MissLis

Mistress Neta's and my Best Cleavage Contest is proceeding very well ... thank you so much to everyone who's taking part either by voting for photos, or entering photos.

If you are planning on entering a photo don't leave it too late. You can enter photos up until the end of February, when the contest closes, but submitting photos towards the end of the month means less time for voters to vote for you!

For the info of those voting: your votes will be kept quiet until the end of the contest, when we announce the winners. Remember we also appreciate any comments you might like to add, they may be reproduced under the photo you are commenting on.

I wanted to share MissLis' inspiring photo entry with you (see above) .. you'll also find new photos from the beautiful Mistress Linguinie and her boy SilkDreamz, who's photo lives up to his name. Do go check out the latest entries!

Photo:
courtesy MissLis

Fisting Workshop at Satet's home

Sol and I were lucky enough to attend a workshop on fisting that was held last Sunday at Satet's home in Brisbane.

Satet is one of the few people on the Brisbane scene to regularly organize or teach BDSM educational workshops. These have included basic and intermediate needle play which Satet taught with JC and Katty. Sol and I attended this and really had a great time - you'll find a blog post about it on my BDSM For Beginner's blog here. Next, I think, was Microbranding and temporary piercing, taught by the amazing Bella, who later became such a good friend to sol and myself in Melbourne. We had friends who attended and enjoyed the day very much. So when Satet announced on Fetlife that she might be organizing a fisting workshop, sol and I put our names on the list immediately.

We also had another reason for wanting to attend, being aware that all funds raised on the day would be put towards the most important local kinky cause around here at the moment, for Bast.

WANT TO HELP BAST
OR ATTEND SLUTBOI'S
BENEFIT FOR BAST
ON 6 MARCH?
CLICK HERE!

Fisting is rarely offered as a workshop topic, in fact I can't even recall the last time a similar workshop was offered in Australia. It must have been a while back. Sol and I really enjoyed the afternoon. Apart from catching up with some old friends, we learned a great deal.

Both anal and vaginal fisting were covered by the presenter, dunalot.

First we had an hour and a half of theory, covering preparation topics such as cleaning out, gloves and lubes, and then moving on to preparing the play area, communication, hand positions, etc. The workshop notes dunalot provided were thoughtfully written, with lots of great tips from experience.

Then it was time for the practical sessions. These were extremely helpful, and I truly can't praise dunalot's "demo" bodies highly enough. Afterwards Satet asked all attendees to fill in a Feedback form. Sol and I were both delighted to rate everything "excellent".

If you live in Southern Queensland or Northern NSW and are interested in finding out about Satet's workshops, you can keep up to date by writing to Satet on Fetlife, to ask if you may join her house party group (titled "Poney's House Parties"), where forthcoming workshops are listed.

REFERENCES AND ONLINE RESOURCES:

BOOKS:
Addington, D (1998). A Hand in the Bush, The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting. Greenery Press.

WEBSITES:
Wiki - Fisting
Fisting Academy - how to info
Sex Info 101 - Fisting - more how to info
Fisting porn

FORUMS:
Fetlife - Fisting Group
Fetlife - Fisting in NSW (local group for those who live in New South Wales)
Fisting Forum

VIDEOS:
Dunalot recommends this YouTube video: Vagina Song *grin*

Many thanks:
Satet
Dunalot

Time to help a friend...

For readers who live locally:

A benefit is being organized in Brisbane on Saturday 6 March by slutboi to help a terminally ill member of our local kinky community.

I don't think it's my place to provide personal details here but for those of you who'd like to know more and help - either by attending or by sending a donation - you can contact slutboi direct or join his Fetlife group about the Benefit, where you can read about all the great events planned for that evening.

The amount of funds being sought (only $3000.00 AUD) is insignificant to the comfort and peace of mind it's acquisition will bring our friend.

Hope to see you there :)

Many thanks:
Slutboi

Best Cleavage Contest

Mistress160 "I think a select few of us should
start a group for Best Femdom Cleavage grin"

MistressNeta "Mistress160 - you're on; you can
count me in... grinning widely and proudly"

Feeling a bit ...er... flat ... post holidays?!

MistressNeta and myself invite readers to take part in a very special, totally tasteless vaguely Femdom themed contest to welcome in 2010!

Recent comments on Fetlife photos uploaded by Ms160 and MistressNeta have encouraged us to suggest our friends join us in a Best Cleavage Contest!

All genders/ kinky orientations may enter photos of themselves, may recommend photos of others and may vote.

We'd love you to either submit your favorite photo(s) of yourself or recommend your favorite cleavage shots of kinky friends (we'll contact them for permission to include it). Once photos are approved by all concerned we'll display them up on Ms160's blog, send links to everyone taking part and then everyone can vote.

So all you Kinky folk, come join in the contest and display your buxom best!

Mistress160 and MistressNeta

CONTEST DETAILS:

WHO CAN TAKE PART:

• All genders/ kinky orientations may enter photos of themselves (cross dressers most welcome).
• Everyone may recommend photos of others.
• Everyone may vote on submitted photos.

WHAT WE WANT TO SEE:

Nudity is boring. We want that cleavage decorated, framed by your favorite lingerie or fetish gear. Or the photograph presenting your "assets" in interesting ways...

CONTEST CLOSES:

28 February 2010.

RULES:

If you wish to submit a photo:

1. Please contact either Mistress160 or MistressNeta via Fetlife and provide an online link if the photo is already online or on Fetlife, or request our contest email address to forward copies of your photos (Low to medium resolution photos preferred).
2. Please provide the name of the photographer and whether you have their permission for the photo to be used.
3. Any comments about the photo you are submitting are most welcome and will be reproduced beneath the photo (for example: "this is a favorite shot of mine, not only do my breasts look fabulous but the photo reminds me of a great night at [whatever]").
   
4. Photos will also be displayed - and the announcement of the winners made - on Mistress160's blog (www.mistress160.com).

If you wish to recommend a photo for inclusion in the contest:

1. please contact either Mistress160 or MistressNeta with the following details : scene name of the person in the photo, the name of the photographer if you know it, a link to the photo and a comment about why it should be included.

If you want to vote on photos in the contest:

1. The best place to keep up with the contest will be this post on Mistress160's blog. All photo entries will be displayed here, and the winning photos announced in early March.
2. To vote, please contact either Mistress160 or MistressNeta via Fetlife, title your message "Contest" and then in your message provide the title and details of the photo you wish to vote for and provide a score between 1 and 10 (10 being the highest ... perfect scores are acceptable, overscoring (ie, 20 out of 10) will be counted as 10 out of ten).
   
3. Any comments you'd like to add will also be most welcome.
4. You can vote for as many photos as you like.

A HUGE THANK YOU TO EVERYONE TAKING PART!

CONTEST ENTRIES (at 24 Feb 2010)

(I'll add more in as entries arrive and post updates with a link to here ...

NOTE: the photos are in the order they were received for entry, new ones at the bottom)


MistressNeta - Photo 1
(photographer: Jack Payne)
Comment by MistressNeta:
"A more subtle cleavage cinched
and captivated by sensual wear"

Miss Voluptrixx
(photographer: xavier)

Comment by Miss Voluptrixx:

"the worthy worship at this altar"

Mistress160 - Photo 1
(photographer: solipsist)
Comment from Ms160:
"this leather corset was purchased at Marquis De Sade in Melbourne,
and first worn to Hellfire Resurrection during Kinkfest 2009.
I was certainly impressed when I saw this photo!"

MistressNeta - Photo 2
(photographer: Jack Payne)
Comment by MistressNeta:

"I purchased the Matrice Coat from ExoticFootwear
now known as Tabu4u. My generous cleavage and my favourite
Red Riding Crop are proudly displayed"

Mistress160 - Photo 2
(photographer: solipsist)
Comment from Ms160:
"a Warners bra worn with a shiny lace up PVC jacket
resulted in a lovely cleavage shot"

solipsist - Photo 1
(photographer: Ms160)
Comment from Ms160:
"I've entered this photo on sol's behalf because I hope
some of my favorite cross dressers will also enter the
contest ... this was sol's first bra!"

solipsist - Photo 2
(photographer: Ms160)
Comment from Ms160:
"sol's first attempt at wearing "boobs" ...
I love the boobs with the beard!"


kitty4chains
(photographer: kitty4chains)
comment from kitty4chains:
"Aren't i a pretty school gurl"

MissLis
(photographer: )

Mistress Linguinie
(photographer: SilkDreamz)

SilkDreamz
(photographer: Mistress Linguinie)
Comment by SilkDreamz
" I was told to stay still Mistress was getting frustrated trying
to get a good shot that is why I ended up wearing my slave collar,
I needed reminding of my place"

desertstorm
(photographer: desertstorm)
Comment from Ms160:
"I'm so pleased desertstorm entered the contest,
this is a really classy and well designed photo that reveals
desertstorm's cleavage
is just as great as his legs!"

sugarfiend
(photographer: Gemini)


THANK YOU
to everyone taking part,
both contest entrants and voters!

PHOTOS SO FAR:
Mistress160
MistressNeta
MissVoluptrixx
solipsist
kitty4chains
MissLis
Mistress Linguinie
SilkDreamz
desertstorm
sugarfiend