Ball kicking

Sol has long enjoyed ball kicking fantasies, so we thought we'd explore the idea a little (any male dominants reading this post might like to stop reading NOW *grin*).

Ball kicking / ball busting turns up quite a bit in male kinky fantasies and BDSM pornography (check out some videos here). It even has it's own separate genre in Japan: tamakeri (玉蹴り)(lit. ball kicking). According to Wiki "one notable actress in tamakeri is Erika Nagai, who typically uses her martial arts skills to knee or kick men in the testicles". That's about all the info Wiki has on the subject. Luckily there are quite a lot of active Fetlife groups dedicated to this topic:

• Ball busting
  
• CBT / ball busting
  
• Kick me in the balls
  
• Kicked and trampled with sexy high heels and boots
  
• High heel boots! ball busting / trample / cock trample
  

These are a helpful place to start if you are looking to learn more about ball busting / kicking and want to ask some questions of your own. There's a good thread in the Ball Busting group on "What sparked your ball busting interest" and another one in the Kick me in the balls that asks:

"what makes for a great ballbuster? Is it her style, how hard she kicks, the tone of her voice?? maybe.... Tell me details what your ballbuster is like!".

I really liked some of the responses on that thread, because they echo how sol and I feel about this fetish:

"Dusturbed_Misfit: "The Look on her face, the way she kicks, the tone in her voice, what she says to me, the outfit she wears, the style of High Heel shoes she wears, the way she laughs at me after she kicks me, but most of all, the fact that she doesn't hold anything back when she kicks me"

jaybadboy: "For me it is knowing she enjoys it the look on her face the pleasure she receives from my torment"

six_n_half_around: "hmm, there's alot of things that contribute to a good ballbuster, what she wears, what she says and how she says it, how hard she kicks (first off, find how hard he likes to be kicked and do not go past his pain tolerance), her shoes, trust level is a must (can't trust just anyone with our balls, we only get 1 set and they are not replaceable if they get damaged), and last she has to be into it with a willingness to explore ideas and practice

bdsminportland: "For me it is all about her eagerness. I love it when you can tell that she is nervous about doing it, but really wants to. Then, right in the moment before the kick--when she has committed herself to what she is about to do--you can see her brighten up. "This is going to be so much fun," is painted all over her face.

"Then after the initial few hits she realizes that she really really likes this and doesn't want to let you rest or recover. She tries to sneak in extra kicks before you fall down or maybe pounces on you while you are rolling on the floor and pulls your hands off of your junk in order to deliver a well placed slap.

"And laughter. The more she laughs at it the better it is."

So, how do you start?And importantly, how can you avoid doing serious damage? Again, there was lots of advice on Fetlife - try reading the thread titled "How hard?". Here's one response, by adam4cbt:

"I have to agree that its absolutely a matter of what you are into. And many men don't find it something want to take much of - or at all. I'd have to say I'm on the other end of the spectrum. For me, iuts the rteason I have testicles - have them beaten as hard, as much and as often as possible.

"Yes it hurts - a lot. Of course that's the point. And I'd have to say that when Mistress has tied your legs apart and spent half an hour smashing punches into your balls with lead weighted sap glove or hitting them with 1.5 lb wooden clubs, they hurt an unbelievable amount.

"So there is a lot you can do - and survive; although it would be stupid to say that really heavy ball busting isn't risky. But with moderate (but very painful) busting, it's amazing wehat testicles can take.

"Go slow. Find and respect his limits. And have fun hurting him a lot - just where he's meant to hurt."

Coloradosubboy suggests on the same thread that novices:

"start off slow and steady in your approach to learn what your boy can endure (he will be learning too, as several have stated here).

"The psychological aspect of BB or trampling or caning or any torment delivered to a man's 'jewels' is a major mind-fuck. As boys and adolescents we all had them 'hurt' accidentally in sports or simply slipping off the pedal on a bike & hitting the cross bar. So real or imagined pain there is profound. The idea of 'giving control' to a top to inflict pain there is difficult to imagine at best, and extremely fearful at the least. Your advantage in all of that is to 'tease' out the fear, not in a ha ha sense, but in taking the time to bring him (and you) along for the journey into the amazing edge play of BB and other forms of bringing pain to the balls.

"In the scene itself i am always amazed at to features of such edge play: 1) how fearful i am 2) how much i and my nuts can take/endure and 3) how i get into deep levels of 'sub-space'. The endorphins flow richly when i receive this from my Mistress.

"i encourage you to begin by using your hands, fingers and feet & toes... you do not need special equipment or toys for this. Any hard surface and your hands/feet will do quite nicely ;))"

JohnnyBalls suggested:

"You can always start soft and work your way up to harder kicks. This will, one, help you and your victim find his pain limit (whether you then choose to exceed it is of course up to you). Two, it creates a natural crescendo to the activity, making it more exciting for all involved. Three, it will enable you to kick your victim harder, as his pain tolerance will build with each kick"

This is what sol and I did.

I had sol put on lingerie and a black leather ball stretcher, then lie back unrestrained on the floor, on a thick carpet, legs slightly apart. The ball stretcher not only tightened the skin of his shaved balls, it separated them and presented them perfectly for my amusement.

I wore a corset, black leggings and thigh high black leather boots with five inch heels. I sat on the edge of the massage table, with sol's genitals positioned right near my feet. I swung one foot experimentally ... ideally the massage table needed to be slightly higher but it would do this first time.

I looked down at my target area and laughed - sol had the most enormous erection, which he maintained during the entire scene.

I began by gently tapping the sole of one foot against one ball, and then tapped several more times, with increasing force and sharpness:


I then changed feet, and tapped the other ball, this time using not only the sole of my boot but the side and tip:


I checked verbally with sol: all was well ... "a little harder please, Mistress". Bloody masochist. Right, then. I repeated the sharp taps with both feet:


That got his attention...

I stopped for a while, ran some ideas via sol and then began again ... this time striking the balls sharply with my heel for a while, before returning to the flat sole "tap":


I inserted my heel into the ring in sol's ball stretcher:


And pulled upwards, increasing the stretch and pressure on his genitals.

After the next break I picked up my favorite cane and applied it to sol's balls for a minute or so:


Then back to using my boots for a while before again reconnecting with the ball stretcher's ring, this time with my finger, which allowed for much greater lift:


A final round of "boot taps", then a quick couple of touches on his cock and (of course, with permission) sol came ... very quickly and very loudly:


"Mmmm. That was lots of fun", I said to sol, who was still lying on the floor with a big smile on his face, "think we'll do some more of that!".

"Absolutely", he replied, "um ... can we do it a bit harder?"

I checked over the next couple of days - no ball pain. So we'll definitely try this again, at a more severe level!

(photos: Ms160)