Impressing The Diva

Okay so what's wrong with the photo below?:


It's a strap-on harness so it's probably Ms160 in it ... but wait ... is that a real cock in it? Ms160 is a man, you always knew it!

Nope, the PA piercing gives it away, lol. It's sol trying on my old Mistress S leather strap-on harness! In this household we definitely know who has the bigger cock:


On Sunday after our Hunt guests left I decided it was time for a little strap on play. I had promised a couple of blog readers that I'd write another in depth "how to" version of a strap-on scene. I also wanted to try out the new harness Steve Sax gave me a couple of weeks back: the ever popular Diva.:


I'd tried it on and found it comfortable. But I had something I was interested in checking: when you put a dildo with balls in the Sax Diva harness you need to leave the bottom stud undone (see their online catalogue photo above) My task today was to see how that open stud affected the support of the dildo. Was I going to be able to thrust easily or was stability going to be an issue?

It was a magical warm afternoon so we decided to play on the deck, over looking the valley. We brought the massage bed out and set up the enema kit and other play items:


And yes that is a leather strap-on harness and dildo hanging from one of our suspension points, lol. It makes it easy to grab when you need it!:


We made sure the height of the massage table was right for the position I planned to put sol in: face up, legs apart and up, so that his ass was at the bottom edge of the table and easy for me to reach. We steadied the other end of the table with "porn" (old magazines). Sol then set up a pulley system with bondage rope for his cuffed ankles:


You want your partner squeaky clean for anal games so it was now time to fill the enema bag with warm water:


And for sol to lie on the table and take it:


I snapped on my Ikea red latex gloves and did Fiendish Nurse impressions as I introduced the nozzle:


It only took a few minutes to do. While sol waited for my permission to release the water we checked everything was ready on my play tray:


Let's take a moment to see what's on that tray and why:

• First lots of lube. If you've read my BDSM for Beginner's Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex you'll know the importance of THAT. You are unlikely to proceed very far without it, and he'll certainly never let you try again if you don't use it *grin*. I've got two types of lube, including KY, plus Vaseline and a local favorite Lucas' Pawpaw Ointment. It sounds weird but it's brilliant. It has the consistency of Vaseline but is even more effective. If you live in Oz I do recommend some in your play bag.

• Condoms. Absolutely needed. You just whip them off at the end and they take any mess with them.

• Latex gloves (both throw away and scarlet Ikea kitchen ones that I really like). These keep your hands clean and can either be thrown away at the end of a scene or washed.

• Small towels (you can see the rolled up blue one ... I think I used three during this scene ... the prepared harnesses are sitting on another blue one. There's also a really big towel on the massage table). Essential for cleaning up come, other mess etc.

• A plastic bag for rubbish. For used condoms, used tissues, latex gloves etc.

• Prepared harnesses with dildos. It's sol's task to clean the harnesses and dildos and cover the latter with condoms. This means they are ready for me to put on, and the scene isn't delayed while I muck around. The one you can see at the right of the photo above is Sax's Delux Vac U Lok leather harness with a jelly probe style dildo (for why I like the Vac U Lok system, plus lots more info on different types of harnesses, their pros and cons etc see my Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex post)
  

• A few toys. I have a small cane and CBT size flogger, plus Japanese clover clamps. I didn't use them this time but they were there "just in case". The blue curled up ratchet you can see at bottom left I did use....
  

• A clock (you can't see it but its there). It might be necessary to time some parts of your scene ... I'll explain more later.
  

All these things are on a tray. Why? So that I can move them closer at the start of the scene. Once you are inside your partner it's a tad tricky to trot off to get your play items, towels or whatever. So I move the whole tray to a stool on my right hand side.

What you can't see on the tray is the camera. That's round my neck on a piece of rope. I've learned that strap-on play can get messy and you really don't want to get lube and God knows what on the camera. So I put mine around my neck and either remove my latex gloves or clean my hands first with one of those small towels.

After torturing sol for a while ("how badly out of ten do you need to go now?") I finally allowed him to release the water. For best effect we then repeated the procedure. Then it was time to put him into position on the massage table, face up and attach his ankle cuffs to the ropes:


If you put your partner in a similar position you need to keep an eye on the time. Even though the weight is being taken by the ropes, having their legs in such a position can be stressful after about ten minutes. You also want to keep an eye on their circulation and their temperature. I allowed sol to keep on his T shirt and dressing gown because there was a bit of a breeze building up on the deck. I also had socks for his feet, if needed.

I had on black leggings and a black T shirt, and Sax's Delux Vac U Lok harness with a pink jelly anal probe, as I wanted to introduce a smaller dildo to sol before trying the larger cock I had ready in Sax's Diva harness. We were ready to go....

I did a few more Fiendish Nurse impressions, snapping on throwaway white latex gloves, and beginning to lube his asshole:


I relaxed him further with a small vibrator:


I then introduced the pink jelly anal probe:


Once it was in the first inch or so I stopped moving and allowed him to adapt to it. Then again I gently pushed further, stopping again at the half way mark ... and then the three quarter point. I kept an eye on the clock, allowing him time to relax before I began thrusting gently:


I always recommend using a smaller dildo like an anal probe the first time you fuck someone. It does make entry easier. But on the other hand the sharper point of it can cause problems if it hits internally at funny angles, so keep asking your partner how it feels and of course come out immediately if there is sharp pain.

Remember every time you re-enter: re-lube!!!

If your partner is noting discomfort rather than pain don't completely withdraw; back out a bit and see how they cope. You might find they are fine about you continuing after a bit of a rest. Play with their cock for a while. That usually works :).

This is what happened with sol and myself. I thrust gently for a while with the anal probe. He took the whole thing, which he didn't realize at the time, and had quite an intense fucking with it, but the point made things a bit sore. So I withdrew, quickly unsnapped the Vac U Lok harness and let it drop, then let his legs down and helped him to sit up. We retired inside to bed for a while...

About half an hour later we returned, this time with me wearing Sax's Diva harness with the larger dildo with balls:


This time I also attached the blue ratchet to an attachment point above sol on the massage bed (you can read more about the ratchet here) and attached the other end through sol's Prince Albert piercing:


We only did this for a brief time because the piercing is still healing, but it gave us an idea of how much fun the PA will be during play later:


Sol had not yet put the condom on the dildo, so I asked him to show me how well he remembered Midori's trick of putting a condom on with your teeth:


He did well, I was really impressed!

Keeping an eye on the clock and the weather (it was now turning cool) I returned to my red Ikea latex gloves and relubed sol's asshole thoroughly. I then reintroduced the (cleaned in the meantime) small vibrator for a while, then finger fucked him with one ... two ... three ... and finally four fingers. He opened his eyes during this and I gave him a very evil grin. I again lubed the larger dildo:


Then slowly introduced it:


I find half inserting a finger, then introducing the dildo along the finger, helps me get a feel for where I am (there is a lot more info on how to actually fuck using a strap-on in Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex ). I got up quite a good rhythm, thrusting wise. Most important, I was pleased that the dildo remained secure, despite the bottom strap being left undone because of the balls. So that's a good thing to be able to report in my ongoing strap-on harness reviews.

Sol and I had not been sure whether he'd be able to take the larger cock, but being a total tart he took the lot:


Very soon after he was asking permission to come. I very nearly said no. Because watching him come down from that plateau would have appealed to my sadistic side. But I decided he deserved a reward for providing me with so much fun, so I graciously agreed. The words were hardly out of my mouth when:


So there you go: a classic come shot! Ten minutes later we were snuggled up in bed. Weekends are so much fun...


REFERENCES AND ONLINE RESOURCES:

There is a great reference and online resources list at the end of Ms160's Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex post.

Want to check out the harnesses Ms160 mentions? Click on Sax's banner below:

(photos: Ms160 and Sax)

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Burnt Cock Slut Day (Devilwoman + Ms160 have some fun)

This is an edgeplay post.
Please don't read on unless you
desire to explore:
extreme genital modication
emasculation fantasies,
cutting, needle play, electrical play,
sparkler play and branding

On Sunday afternoon sol and I visited Devilwoman in response to this message, left on my Fetlife profile a month or so back:

"Hello Daaarlink! What an exciting winter!!! cowboy is coming up next month, will let you know the dates when I do....AND I wanna do something real nasty to him LOL and would love you to join us!!! It will be at my place, we usually do our nastiest stuff here where I can concentrate without a million people around lol ... so was wondering if you could make it up for a weekend?"

What a daft question.

So on a lovely warm Sunday afternoon we negotiated a scene to feature genital cutting, electrical play, needle play, sparkler play and branding via sparklers and an electronic soldering iron. This is an edited version of that scene. If you enjoy these things you can read the full version with extra photos on my edgeplay blog. Just drop me a line for access. I'm putting a modified version here because Mistress160's Abode is about my life and I enjoy edgeplay. So please don't write to me complaining about the photos below. It's your choice to read on.

Where was I? Genital cutting, needle play, sparkler play and branding via sparklers and an electronic soldering iron ... and possibly some really fiendish ants:


"Are you serious?" I asked Devilwoman. "Absolutely" she replied as she placed the sealed container on her work bench. Devil woman, indeed *grin*. Then it was time for Cowboy to undress and lie down on the medical table in her dungeon, which was adorned with his special sheet, the blood from previous scenes making a Jackson Pollock design.

Every time I see Cowboy, his tattooed, heavily modified and bifurcated "dragon" is different. This time he had several new piercings and had self inserted several balls around the head of his cock.

That ball above is being held by a small strong rubber band. You put these on with a great little device, an Elastrator, which stretches the small rubber band over the scrotum and above the testicles. When the band is secured, the testicles are tightly tied off at the base of the scrotum and die from lack of blood. It's great for kinksters with castration fantasies but you've got to watch it because irreversible damage can occur within the first hour of applying the band.

You'll see the Elastrator in photos later, as we used these rubber bands several times during the scene. Now it was time for this first one to be cut off with a razor blade:

We examined cowboy's privates with interest. We wanted to check the state of the scars from last time we played, when sparklers burnt some areas of the dragon. They had healed well, even removing some of the tattoo.

Devilwoman decided to start the scene with a buzz, so to speak. We had selected several small silver tea spoons earlier, and now Devilwoman introduced one into Cowboy's cock:

She attached electrodes to the top and bottom of the spoon and turned on her TENS unit:

After a few minutes it was time to move to the soldering iron, which had been heating quietly and safely in a metal tube on the corner of the medical gurney. For the type of burns we had in mind we needed a larger dick, so we used the Elastrator to install a band at the base of Cowboy's cock to cut blood flow while Cowboy was semi hard:

Cute, isn't it? Cowboy has a rather extreme fantasy regarding certain parts of his cock, so today we planned to mark out that area with the soldering iron.

Devilwoman carefully "soldered" while I turned Cowboy's cock, resulting in a complete band of burned flesh. Then it was my turn:


Quite a lot of text and photos are taken out of this post at this point, LOL .... After the soldering iron it was time for some needle play:

First blood for the day! Leaving the needles in, we moved to sparklers... we ran lit sparklers over the dragon and between the bifurcated parts of the head. Then cowboy suggested we use the finished sparkler to do something really severe. We looked at him. Fucking mad bastard that he is. We were all aware this would cause permanent damage, but he was fine - lying back, unrestrained, with a huge grin on his face.

So we did it. Quite a few more pix only for the edgeplay blog at this point, including photos of the end result, which as we suspected, was very severe. You'll also find the last part of the scene there, where Devilwoman did some rather intricate cutting.

Then it was time to help cowboy pack the wounds to halt the bleeding:

While he got dressed, Devilwoman and I admired the sheet's new additions:

Cowboy was having trouble with pain, so we helped with painkillers (not very useful) and aloa vera (extremely useful). Here's cowboy scraping fresh aloa vera gel from the plant onto his keys and then onto his cock head:

He told us it cut the pain within minutes.

It was hugs all round, and then Devilwoman wrote a final reminder of a really great scene on Cowboy's chest:

Time to head upstairs and back into the world. It was going to take me some time to come down from this scene. "Damn, we forgot to use the ants" said Devilwoman.

Photos:
solipsist
(scene photos used with permission)

Sincere Thanks to:
Devilwoman and cowboy, as always

Another attempt at the CBT Peg World Record....

On Saturday afternoon I decided it was time to have another go at our Guiness Book of Records Pegs on Cock Record. You might recall our last attempt, we managed about one hundred pegs I think...

As those of you who have read my BDSM For Beginners post on clamp / pressure play will recall, we enjoy collecting lots of different types of pegs: wooden, plastic, they all have different shapes and differing pressures and are a lot of fun ... especially for new dominants. It's really easy to organize a peg scene:

1) place sub facing up on bed

2) restrain hands above head (optional ... but you'll get more pegs on if you do this *grin*)

3) start placing pegs on shaft

4) enjoy sound effects

5) take pegs off ..... slooooowly

6) enjoy louder sound effects

7) allow or deny orgasm to sub as you wish (you'll need to untie their hands if you don't want to do all the work)

There you had it ... a fast, and very effective scene, all using "pervertables" you have around the house!

I decided to do this scene because I'd discovered my cute lady bird pegs:


were actually a different size to my other pegs (second from the left, below) :


Which meant I had a good chance of making the new world record.

So, following my own advice above, I directed sol to lie down on the bed and clipped his cuffs to the bedhead attachment points. I had a quick play with his new piercing before removing his panties:


Then placed the peg box between his legs:


I started with the size third from the left in the photo of all the pegs, above a bit, running them up the center of his shaft:


I then added rows on the same sized pegs on each side, numbering thirty:


(note the clock above: you should keep an eye on the time if you restrain his arms in an upright position). Sol was obviously greatly enjoying himself, as the number of pegs increased:


I stopped adding pegs for a while and played with his hard-on:


But the lure of the peg box was too strong ... I went back to adding pegs and soon his cock looked like a porcupine:


Then started on the ladybird pegs, which are smaller and have a tighter bite:


At seventy pegs I decided sol had nearly reached his limit. His groans were very loud as I inserted a toothpick in his piercing jewelry and stretched a little:


Then ran the toothpick over the pegs, like a musical instrument:


Here is the final result, at seventy five:

I finished with two tiny pig pegs but you can only see them in the video. Then it was really fun time: it was time to remove them:


Some very serious noises were happening now:


Then suddenly it was all over! All off ... so sad! I gave sol a quick masturbate with lube, to get the blood flowing (and the last yowls and moans) and then let his arms down. "We didn't make the world record sadly, so you can't come today" I said as I tidied the pegs away....

He was away with the fairies for quite a while, the endorphin rush was fairly huge with this scene. See, told you pegs were fun!

Photos:
Ms160