Sol's birthday: part 3: sissy tea party

Sol and I had been looking forward to attending MzAntonina's tea party for a very long time. We knew the afternoon was going to be a very special one indeed...

Sol is not into sissy play, but he does enjoy forced feminization and erotic humiliation, so attending this sissy tea party - with both old friends and several new ones - would provide a perfect end to his kinky birthday weekend.

One familiar face was Cindy, with whom we have shared a very memorable service scene. Cindy was wearing the same outfit as before. I previously described it as:

"absolutely marvelous, the classic sissy maid: a completely over the top construction of pink polyester frills and multiple foaming petticoats, with white stocking and blue bows at one end, and an almost apricot pink wig (don't forget to mention the wig has flowers, Ms160) at the other end. Cindy also had a pair of white gloves to match, but wasn't wearing those".

Cindy wasn't wearing them today either, tsk tsk *grin*. Sol's outfit couldn't compete with Cindy's glory but he still looked pretty fetching in the French Maid's outfit we purchased in San Francisco, topped by a very silly, pretty blonde wig provided by out hostess ... such pretty boys, sorry I mean girls!

Mind you, they were not the only ones wearing wigs on this occasion. Another excellent blonde wig soon arrived on the head of MissLeia, who declared "why should the boys have all the fun"! Here you can see Miss Leia later trying on a recent acquisition by MzAntonina:


Our hostess soon had sol at work in the kitchen:


Another couple, Mistress Brianna and Simon then arrived. Shortly afterwards (via another of Cindy's outfits and - I'm so sorry but it's true and I have to say it - a curly brown wig that looked exactly like Bo, the new dog at the White House) Simon was transformed into Simone:


This was Simone's first public appearance, and her first time serving at a Femdom tea party. She had received no formal Femdom service training, our hostess making allowances for this.

With the Dommes settled and nursing their drink of choice, Cindy and sol offered themselves for boot cleaning (here Cindy works on MissLeia's new boots):


Then it was time to serve the savories:


I have to say I've never had such exquisite and elegant food at a tea party. It was like having afternoon tea at The Ritz in London. There were delicate savories and patisserie items from David Jones Food Hall (the duck and ginger tarts were superb) ... rolled sandwiches made by our hostess filled with ham and mustard, bree (and something), turkey and cranberry sauce ... herb and cheese scones just out of the oven, God they were so good... mini pavlovas with strawberries ... and that's only a few items ... just thinking about it again as I write makes me whimper for more....

While we Ladies ate, drank and discussed all manner of things, the boys did massage duties. Here Cindy works on MissLeia's shoulders:


MzAntonina highly praised sol's massage technique, much to his delight.

Unfortunately by now Simone's extremely cheeky nature was being revealed. The first time she was naughty she received a slap on the buttocks. The second time (or was it the third, or fourth or fifth? LOL) it was agreed the punishment must be less enjoyable, so she was sent to stand in the corner, holding a 20c piece against the wall with her nose:


Such nice legs!

When further cheek resulted, she was installed face down on the massage table and suffered a variety of corporal punishment implements:


Including her first caning (of which I took a video, as evidence of such an important event must be preserved) :


As it was now time to serve some of the sweet delicacies, a lesson in objectification followed, with Simone turned over and used as a table:


Sadly none of these discipline measures took effect. When at one point Simone poured herself a cup of tea and sat down with the Ladies (she was sent back to the kitchen promptly LOL) I thought about something I discuss in my tea party workshops: how vitally important it is to match your servers' interests / desires at a tea party event. But of course the trick is how to discover those interests in advance.

In Simone's case the problem (other than a lack of Femdom service / protocol training, which can be corrected) was simply that she was a punishment oriented sub. These tend to cause disruption in the hope of attracting attention / "punishments". Cindy and sol were wired differently, their main desire being to serve well and please their Mistresses.

This difference was reinforced for me when I heard Simone's owner, Mistress Brianna, complement sol on how good he was being. What was usual behavior for sol (pleasing me and MzAntonina) was obviously very unusual for Simone. But in tea party situations you have to somehow make your mix of servers work ... and I silently commended my hostess and Simone's owner for their patience!

To the guests' delight Cindy now appeared wearing a wonderful home made version of a classic American cigarette / candy girl tray:


It was adorned with chocolate cake and MissLis' scrumptious mandarin / almond cup cakes:


Cindy's tray provided quite a lot of amusement for the Ladies, who spent some time tormenting her:


Cindy and sol had been so good it was soon reward time...

Sol instructed to lie face down on the massage table while MzAntonina and I worked on him with leather paddles:


And then canes:


Here MzAntonina gently blows cool air on his burning cheeks:


And here she rests a cool hand:


I love watching MzAntonina play - and playing with her - she has great elegance and style...

Unfortunately a combination of the tight wig and his position on the massage table gave sol a sudden blinding headache, so the scene was stopped. We made him comfortable in a chair and wrapped him up warmly. When sol's temperature continued to plummet, MissLeia kindly loaned him her furs:


Cindy took sol's place. We'd been delighted that very day to present MzAntonina with a lapis lazuli studded silver and plaited leather Central Asian horsewhip. Here she using it on Cindy:


It caused Cindy's toes to curl!

Reward time over, it was back to work for the servers ... here is Cindy doing an excellent job serving tea:


While MzAntonina watches approvingly...


Doesn't sol look sweet? At about this time I suggested he show his new Prince Albert piercing to the Ladies ... which he did, and it was greatly admired ... before three huge drops of blood hit the floor. I had to laugh, not a single bleed yet ... what a place to have the first one!

We cleaned everything up, and returned to find MissLeia administering to Cindy. I can't recall what Cindy did to earn this punishment from MissLeia, but I am sure she must have been VERY naughty...


Then it was time for the boys to play ... er ... ball?! MzAntonina presented each dominant with a small bouncy ball:


The boys were instructed to clear the floor and kneel. We decided sol better sit this one out, in case of injury to his new piercing, but Simone and Cindy quickly took up their positions. Each Domme was to throw the ball into the cleared area, the boys then had to catch the ball in their teeth and return it to it's owner:


The next round the ball got bigger ... and then bigger again. lol:


Mayhem and chaos ensued, LOL:


Despite Simone's inspiring ass in air efforts, Cindy was declared the winner...

This brought us to the final event of the afternoon. Each server was presented in thanks with a glass of very special "champagne", previously provided by their Mistress. Here are the glasses lined up in the kitchen prior to their presentation:


Although unamused when Simone mentioned she had almost cleared and washed the glasses, we enjoyed watching Cindy and sol drain their glasses and thank their Mistresses respectfully. More personal services were then provided by the servers, concluding a very enjoyable and memorable afternoon.

It was dark when we thanked our beautiful hostess and said our farewells to our new friends, whom we hoped to meet up with again soon. Sol and I departed with a divine David Jones box of munchies, as well as the last of his birthday cup cakes. These provided an excellent treat on the drive to Canberra the following morning, eaten as we recalled our favorite moments of the tea party .

Later, on the long drive back up north I dreamed up a series of awards for the day that we could present .... Best Ass In The Air .... that would have to be Simone ... Best Tea Server ... definitely Cindy, such steady hands, such concentration ... Best Massage ... possibly sol, I'd have to check with MzAntonina....

I so love Femdom tea parties ... I really cannot think of a better way to spend an afternoon!

Sincere thanks to
our lovely hostess
MzAntonina
for inviting us!

INTERESTED IN FEMDOM TEA PARTIES?

You can read about this history of Femdom tea parties on this blog post, which also contains a great online resources section.

There are several active worldwide Femdom tea party groups on Fetlife. Ms160 runs one.

Ms160 regularly holds workshops in tea party organization, server selection and training. The next workshop will be in Melbourne in August. If you can't get to a workshop but want more info on how to hold a tea party (including how to select servers) drop Ms160 a line via Fetlife or in the Comments below.

Ms160 started the Mad Hatter's Tea Party Group, a Northern NSW / Southern QLD Femdom tea party group with Mistress Angelicca. The next tea party is on 27 June. If you'd like to attend as either a guest or a server please contact Ms160 or Mistress Angelicca via Fetlife.

Thanks to:
MzAntonina
MissLeia
Mistress Brianna
and our very pretty servers:
Cindy
Simone
and sol!

Photos:
Ms160 and MissLeia
scene photos reproduced with permission
from all attendees