Ms160's birthday weekend (Part 1: tea party)

paddy the tray serves cake

Sol and I spent my birthday weekend at Mistress_Angelicca and paddy's home.

We did our usual trick of driving north across the border on Friday night, leaving the Xmas Present at a friend's farm to run riot with the local hounds (when we picked her up on Monday she was hoarse from all the barking!).

We attended a candle party on the Friday night - Mistress_Angelicca sells the most gorgeous candles, not bad for wax play either - then on Saturday morning Rastas, my favorite kinky first aid adviser, dropped by for a brief visit. We discussed a few seriously sadistic ideas. He checked out my quills and declared them safe for play, so all is proceeding well on that front. The remainder of the morning was spent shopping with Mistress_Angelicca for the rest of the day's events.

First up, on Saturday afternoon, was the second Mad Hatter's Tea Party femdom group tea party. The first tea party had a CFNM theme, and we all enjoyed that so much that Mistress_Angelicca held another one :). This time we had a larger group of guests AND a larger group of servers, most of whom were new to tea party service. It's always good to see new faces. Thank you to all the Ladies who shared their boys, especially Satet, who was unable to attend but allowed slutboi to serve.

First the servers had to endure our fiendish inspection *grin*:


Don't they look pretty? Originally we just checked crotch, hands and teeth:


But we've now learned to check other parts as well:


I must admit slutboi's white satin and frilly apron (see above) won the Apron of the Day award. It was so sweet, and I loved the satin bow at the back.

This is one of my favorite photos of the day:


Then it was time for the guests to settle into Angelicca's lounge room, with it's raging fire (to keep the naked servers warm!). Unusually for femdom tea parties Mistress_Angelicca invites Ladies of all kinky orientations. As long as their dominant or owner's permission is given, female subs are equally welcome. This has proved very successful at both Mad Hatter events. It does tend to change the conversation topics a bit - widens it from just domming lol - but I really enjoy seeing female subs being waited on by naked men ... they need relaxing and pampering as much as anyone.

Once we were all seated, Angelicca explained to the Ladies that their drink order was to be written onto paddy:


Serving drinks took some time because four of the Ladies forgot to write their names with their drink order. I'm sure they didn't forget their names on purpose...


Below LadyNef instructs tntnikki's squishie on how to personally serve her drink, on bended knee, the drink presented with both hands:


After the drinks were served, each server presented himself in front of the Ladies, answered a few questions and removed their apron. You have to agree we had some marvelous bodies to enjoy:


Devilwoman had the bright idea of writing the server's names on their bodies, along with their owner's names and any hard limits:


While the servers were presenting themselves, paddy did a round of the room as a tray:


Everyone was enjoying themselves and there was much conversation and laughter.

In all honesty, service at this tea party was a tad disorganized. In fairness this was in part due to the fact there was a great deal of food in the kitchen for the play party dinner that night, and that workspace for tea party food preparation was compromised. Also paddy as service manager had a large group of new servers to instruct, and very little time to do it, both before the tea party and during it, when he himself was required in the main room (rather than the kitchen) to perform other services (queening / being a tray etc). The result was that several food items (including the ones sol and I had brought) never made it to the Ladies, and at least two Ladies had to ask for their first drinks three times. In the second round of drinks the servers also required a lesson in how to make hot chocolates, with their first attempts being sent back to the kitchen.

Things came to a head when during the second round of drinks LadyNef was served with a chipped mug. She was not a happy rabbit. Lady Nef summoned all the servers and delivered a speech on proper femdom service. The servers listened carefully.

She then administered punishments. For serving her the chipped mug squishie was told to kiss her feet and apologise:


Then she asked who had made her drink, and thus selected the chipped mug. Sol came forward (he is wearing the cuffs in the photo above). She told him his was a greater error. That he was a more experienced submissive and server and should have known better. He was told to apologise and kiss her feet ... and also mine, as he had also let his Mistress down by his behavior.

Finally she summoned paddy, who was in charge of the service team. She gave him several cane strokes as he should not have let the cracked mug be used:


Conversation - and somewhat more focused service - resumed. Soon it was foot baths and massage time. Practically all the guests indulged. The entire room became very quiet as each Lady relaxed and enjoyed the attention:


It was all too quiet for Devilwoman, who decided to liven things up by providing a little sensation play for one of our terrific new servers, as he washed and massaged tntnikki's feet:


Then it was nail polish time. Below slutboi does the honors:


While conversation and various activities continued, Mistress_Angelicca enjoyed some time on the queening chair with paddy servicing her:


Slutboi had been very cheeky all afternoon ... so below Devilwoman places him in one of her nefarious contraptions:


This certainly made serving tricky!

Luckily slutboi was saved when suddenly we noticed the time. It was quite late in the afternoon and time to draw the tea party to a close ... but no problem we could all resume our various activities in a few hours at Mistress_Angelicca and paddy's play party!

INTERESTED IN FEMDOM TEA PARTIES?

• You can read about this history of Femdom tea parties on this blog post, which also contains a great online resources section.
• Want to attend one? There are several active worldwide Femdom tea party groups on Fetlife. Ms160 runs one.
• Want to attend these ones? Ms160 started the Mad Hatter's Tea Party Group, a Northern NSW / Southern QLD Femdom tea party group with Mistress Angelicca. The next tea party will be in August. If you'd like to attend as either a guest or a server please contact Ms160 or Mistress Angelicca via Fetlife.
• Want to learn how to serve or host one? Ms160 regularly holds workshops in tea party organization, server selection and training. The next workshop will be in Melbourne in August. If you can't get to a workshop but want more info on how to hold a tea party (including how to select servers) drop Ms160 a line via Fetlife or in the Comments below.

Thank you:
to our weekend / party hosts
Mistress_Angelicca and paddy
a HUGE thank you :)
Also
to all the guests
and especially
to all our servers!

Photos:
Ms160
reproduced with permission