Monday, September 24, 2007

Adding a smile to your (CBT) day....


On Sunday we decided to track down the seriously evil smiley "massage toy" that MsGawjusRedhead had introduced us to at the Lodge's play party.

As you might recall from my earlier post, we'd had tremendous fun with it on the night (MsGawjusRedhead applying it to sol in the photo at left) with sol strapped into the Ball Presenter, and this hysterical smiley toy bouncing around all over the board and impacting with his family jewels.

MsGawjusRedhead had provided details of the franchise that sold it. We found one in a shopping mall about ten miles away, so decided to check out if they stocked them. But while we were getting dressed to go out, sol said something silly (responding to my "you'd better get dressed" with something like "well I'm not going out in this") and my attention zeroed in on him.

He was dressed in the white flannel ladies nightgown that I'd made him wear to bed the night before, with a sleeveless vest over it for warmth. Hmmm. Time for some public humiliation. "Oh, you can stay in that", I said. He gulped. To be kind I added "you can put your jeans underneath ... and your shoes and socks ... lucky you were not wearing your other frilly floral nightgown". He headed frantically for his jeans, in case I changed my mind, standing there looking rather silly. He kept glancing at me as I finished dressing, brushed my hair and gathered my coat and bag, expecting any moment to hear me issue an order for him to change. But I didn't.

Hilariously, when (literally at our front door) I did provide an out, so to speak, by asking whether it was cold enough that he needed to wear his coat (aware that the coat was long enough to hide the low hem of the nightly) he dithered, said "no", then went into a panic when I laughed and pointed out what he'd done. "Take your coat", I said. Typical sub ... sigh!

As we drove to the shopping mall I said "well, maybe people won't notice, they might think you are wearing some sort of Indian or Muslim dress". He brightened ... only to blush bright red again when we pulled in to park at the mall and I pointed to the Indian family just heading inside - "you won't fool THEM", I smirked.

He slunk out of the car. We were parked quite a way from the entrance, and as sol checked out the crowds I took a photo of his nice flannel nightgown flapping in the breeze. Then I took pity and handed him his coat...

Inside we made out way to the right store and enquired about the massage toy. "This may sound mad", says Ms160, "but it there any chance you sell a smiley ball on a stick?". With great fanfare the staff produced it. "It's the very last one", they said proudly. Sol and I exchanged a glance, sharing the thought of half of our city thumping their cock and balls with these toys, lol...

I handed our new purchase to sol, then ordered him to open his coat for a walk around the mall with me. The funny thing was, by the time we got to Starbucks for a coffee I think he'd forgotten what he was wearing...

Back home, it was time for some CBT. I instructed sol to put his cuffs on, lie down on our bed, place himself in the Ball Presenter and wait. Meanwhile I gathered some black bondage tape, a small vibrator, a small cane, a small leather whip and my Japanese clover clamps, and set them next to sol - and the new smiley toy - on the bed.

I curled up on the bed close by, and locked sol's cuffs together. Sol's cock and balls sat, beautifully presented, untouched, semi hard, in front of me. There is a lovely moment before a dominant begins, when you look down and see the area you are about to torture, resting gently, unmarked. And then of course, you know exactly the trauma you plan to inflict...

I picked up the black bondage tape and began winding it tightly around the root of sol's freshly shaven cock and balls, then around both balls, then each ball alone, separating them.

His balls bulged delightfully. I put down the tape and dragged my finger nails over his balls, then applied the vibrator at their base, and over the balls and shaft.

I then moved the vibrator to the tip of sol's cock, running around the ridges, then settling it at the tip of the urethra.

sol said later:
"the nerve endings, in terms of pleasure, are concentrated more around the frenum, but positioning the vibrator against the urethra was much more intense than I expected"
Next time I plan to have two vibrators on hand, one for the urethra, the other for the frenum.

Sol was as hard as a rock. That was useful ... I continued winding the bondage tape around and between his balls, and then up the shaft, pulling it tight. This cut down sensation on the shaft a lot. But of course not on his swollen balls, or the head of his cock, which I stimulated with my fingertips.

I then picked up a small leather flogger - the one we call the licorice flogger because it's heavy tails are so like old fashion strands of round black licorice - and folding it in half to shorten the tails, began flogging the shaft, and then much more gently, sol's cock head and balls.


After a few minutes flogging, I wound the flogger underneath sol's cock, and holding both the end of the tails and the knotted end of flogger, pulled back, lifting and adding pressure to sol's genitals so I could then begin to cane them with my other hand.

I applied heavier strokes on the wrapped shaft, and lighter constant tapping on the other areas, until sol's balls were darkening in color and any touch of the cane caused him to moan. Time for our new toy....

Which is literally a rubber ball on a plastic stick, mounted on a wooden handle. It's supposed to be helpful in massaging one's back, but why on earth only use it for that? Honestly, vanillas are so boring...

I began gently tapping under and over sol's balls and along the shaft, then increased the intensity of the hits, the plastic stick bending dramatically.

It was the ultimate thuddy device, and perfect to apply after the stinging cane and flogger. What a brilliant toy. I sent up a prayer of thanks to MsGawjusRedhead for sharing hers with us!

Sol always enjoy play most when he has several things to distract his focus, so it was time to make things a little more complex...


I turned the vibrator on full and inserted the tip between sol's balls, divided by the bondage tape, holding it in place with a small towel, and keeping up the pressure with the heel of my foot.

I then used both hands to attach Japanese clover clamps to his left nipple, and the tip of his - still erect - penis. It was a tad tricky with an injured shoulder but I managed it.

I resumed caning his balls and shaft with my left hand, and applied pressure to the clamped points by raising and tightening the chain that linked both clamps.

sol confirmed later this was:
"very very painful ... the kind of pain that makes you 100% focused".
Excellent!

He focused about 200% when I removed the clover clamp a little later from his cock.

And about 300% when I pressed on the ridge of whitened skin, hard with my thumb, to start blood flow. And about 400% when I did the same with his nipple, lol.

It was time to unwrap sol's (still hard, lol) cock and balls, give them some tender love and care, give their owner some as well ... and then send him out to the kitchen naked but for his frilly apron, to cook dinner.

Sol wanted to make something to stir desire, so after enjoying saffron risotto with exotic mushrooms and fresh asparagus (sitting up in bed, each mouthful complete bliss), I turned him face down, naked on the bed and caned his backside with sixty strokes.

His bruises from the play party at the Lodge were still visible. It's only five weeks since his last orgasm so I didn't think he should come himself (*evil grin*), but I did allow him to bring me to orgasm. I'll give sol the final word:
"this made the evening complete ... it's hard to say anymore without writing an entire page..."
Here's sol's wonderful recipe:

Sol's recipe for saffron risotto with exotic mushrooms and asparagus
(thanks to Christine Mansfield)
(for two people)

I cup arborio rice
I cup sliced fresh exotic mushrooms (shitake, King Browns, oyster mushrooms, chestnut mushrooms etc)
1/2 cup whole fresh button mushrooms
2 1/2 cups chicken stock
a glass of sauvignon blanc
handful of torn fresh basil
1 clove finely diced garlic

1 finely diced onion
1/2 teaspoon saffron threads
1/2 hot red chilli
pepper and salt to taste
3 tablespoons olive oil

- fry onion, chilli and garlic in olive oil until golden
- add rice, stir until rice coated with oil
- add wine, stir until liquid absorbed
- add saffron, and immediately
- start to add stock (which should be kept at the boil in another saucepan) in small amounts and stir constantly until absorbed. As you near the end the rice will become creamy but the grains will still be separate
- add asparagus after 15 minutes
- add mushrooms after twenty minutes
- when cooked, add salt and pepper to taste and the basil leaves
- serve immediately to Mistress on bended knee

(Photos: Ms160)

3 comments:

willie said...

Mistress, you are amazing! I am having trouble waiting until I am healthy enough to play again! Thanks again Mistress for sharing your ideas and your pictures are fabulous.

willie

Mistress160 said...

Hope you recover soon, willie.

Best wishes to your Lady.

Bella said...

Oh you provide so much inspiration Mistress.

Much love from us both....well it may take some time but I know he will still love you :)

Big hugs
Bella xx