Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Leather riding crops



We recently acquired a few second hand equestrian items from a local farmer. Two of these items were leather wrapped / braided riding crops:


 On it's whip page Wiki describes these as:
"show cane[s]s ...  a short, stiff cane that may be plain, leather covered or also covered with braided leather. Rarely used now except in formal show hacking events"
I often wondered what was inside these crops. When I did some research I discovered:
"The shaft or stock of the whip was traditionally made of cane, with time more whips were "Steel lined", which meant that they were more difficult to break. The stock could be left as varnished cane, smoked, to give a darker appearance, or it could be covered in plain or braided leather or braided linen, horsehair, catgut or whalebone. The covered stocks are easier to grip in wet weather..."
Our two new ones were beautifully made:

 
 

Regular readers will know we already own two of this type of crop / cane.  Here's two posts where they feature:
 So why get more?  Well first because caning is our very favorite thing and we are always interested to try out new implements and discovering new effects and marks:
Equally importantly, these particular crops:
  • seriously push my erotic buttons (I find braided leather over a cane very hot, both the texture in my hands and the marks)
  • were the type of crops used at Roissy in "Story of O" so they've always had that early kink link for me
  • I find extremely easy to use (the leather wrapping adds stability and substance to the central rod, which means they go where I want them to ... so a great tool for new dominants)
  • they are excellent corporal punishment instruments to travel with (the leather means they rarely snap and they are also fine re airport security as they are genuine equestrian products)
  • are not used so often these days for their original purpose so can be hard to track down, so when we see some second hand we always buy them. One I bought for $1 at a local market. These two new ones were $10 each. Extremely good value for something that's unique and well made.
  • make the dominants using them look elegant :) . If you are ever looking for a great female dominant look but are not into the black leather / high boots thing, I recommend the Riding Mistress look: you can get almost everything at a vanilla store, your riding boots are flat which makes play easier and bespoke equestrian riding crops are very classy. It's also easy to travel with these kinds of clothes:



As you can imagine, I wanted to try our new implements out straight away ... so I upended sol on his way to work this morning *grin*:



I tried the smaller one out first:


Then moved to the larger one. This was so well balanced that I could use it from either side:


With their supple rods and large leather flaps (called the keeper) they are also great for striking between the cheeks and connecting with genitals:


At one point I was using both at the same time, one horizontally and the other vertically.   sol went off happily to work with his bum a gentle shade of pink:


Meanwhile I look forward to giving these implements a real workout this weekend :)

If you are interested in buying something like this, check out your local markets and second hard horsey venues (pony clubs for example).  You'll find more expensive new ones (but lovely work) online.  I won't link to them as they are vanilla sites but if you google "equestrian wrapped leather crops" or "show / hacker canes" you'll find some. No money, but still interested? I hope this one vanilla site will forgive me the link - if you want to DIY your own hacking cane, check out this link.

How about cleaning the leather after play?  Yes you can usually clean leather whips for use with other play partners but the leather wrapping and braiding on these makes cleaning tricky. I keep these just for sol, as he is fluid bonded to them. One vanilla website that makes exquisite crops suggests:
"The leather will require only the gentlest cleaning. Care should be taken to avoid the Sterling silver collar or end cap. Saddle soap may be used to clean the leather, preferably one with conditioning properties. There is no need to oil the leather if it is cleaned regularly, unless it becomes particularly dry".
Have fun :)

Photos: 
Ms160

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Another pervertable, yay :)



 So I'm in the super market the other day and I spot the item above. It was in a bin of toys (remember it's summer over here).  It's called MegaBubbles.  It's certainly mega something!

I picked it up .... hmmm ... nice handle, good for thrusting:


I tried squishing the end ... nope, quite firm ... definitely smooth and rounded:


Easy to get a condom on. I could just see sol bent over, cheeks spread....

 $2 this thing cost. It was worth buying for my super market fantasies alone. And who says I can't actually give it a go??

Should I leave the original bubbles in it, or not, lol?

Photos: 
Ms160





Saturday, January 28, 2012

When the reality of play beats fantasy (part 2 - Ms160)



A while back S(A)X kindly gifted us an anal hook. We've always wanted to try one of these.

Last weekend I said to sol, "I'd really like to take some photos of you wearing that anal hook so we we can post them on S(A)X's blog ... to make the photos hotter I'll also put you in the steel urethral dilator Steve Sax asked us to try out".   I liked the idea of sol being encased in metal front and back.

We discussed two different ways for the anal hook to be worn. The first was via a waist rope harness.  We decided to use TwistedMonk's hemp rope, which has a lovely feel and the dark color always looks good against sol's skin.

We assembled what we'd need for the scene:
  • camera
  • anal hook (cleaned)
  • lube
  • rope
  • tissues
  • gloves (for easy clean up and also I can take them off and have lube free hands if I want to take a photo)
  • plastic garbage bag to throw everything in to
  • the ratchet we use for CBT
  •  


sol had a small enema and while resting afterwards I had him knot the rope through the anal hook:

  

I positioned him on the bed like this:


I snapped on my gloves, lubed up and began to work on sol:


I lubed the hook:


It easily slid into sol. I took off my gloves, wiped the lube off sol and took this photo:


Here sol is tying the waist harness off at the back:


I really loved the look of that steel hook, it gleamed and shined:


Which reminded me it was time to install the urethral dilator around sol's other side:


With lots of lube, and keeping in mind that it is curved, I placed the device in sol's urethra. We then tied the device to the waist harness with our red CBT cord:


 We took some photos and then it was time for the second part of the scene...

I removed the urethral device and the rope and cord, then attached the anal hook to the ratchet we use for CBT play, which has a permanent attachment point above our bed:


This was extremely erotic for me, tightening the ratchet cm by cm:


And lifting sol's ass higher and higher:


I was getting very wet ... it was time for Mistress to get some personal attention lol. I removed the hook, cleaned sol and had him lie down on our bed.  I then attached clover clamps to his nipples:


I had sol attach the red CBT cord to the clover clamps. You can see me doing a test pull in the photo below:


This was so I could pull on those cords and yank the clover clamps sharply while sol was going down on me.

This was - if you will excuse the pun - the climax of this scene for me. It was incredibly erotic to have sol literally moan into me ... what made it so hot was both the sound he makes and the fact that each sound vibrated through me as his lips and tongue pleasured me. It was absolutely exquisite, coming during such agony...

After I came I removed the clamps (causing more pain lol) and allowed sol to masturbate while I tortured his nipples further:


It really was a fantastic afternoon. I remember how sol told me the other day that a particular scene had been better than his fantasies. I felt the same about my own orgasm today.  Some scenes really do come together perfectly :)

Photos:
Ms160

Monday, January 23, 2012

Nipple Sucker play



Yesterday we held Fet's Northern NSW group first munch of the year at our friends Satet and alexpierce's Black Rabbit Open Day.

They had an amazing array of toys there, everyone was having a lot of fun trying to work out what various toys did :).  We purchased some medical staplers and then Satet drew my attention to an interesting pair of suction devices for nipples:

 

Satet and Alex's website product info reads:
"SDN015 2-Piece Power Nipple Suckers: These simple and powerful nipple suckers are perfect for anyone looking for some consistent, strong suction. All you have to do is place the base of the sucker firmly against the nipple to create a seal, and then twist the easy-grip control cap to create immediate suction. Enjoy a light sucking sensation or twist the knob further to create a serious vacuum. Just turn the cap backward to return the internal plunger to its original position and release the suction when you are ready."
 

We had to buy these!  sol has extremely sensitive nipples but we'd never explored using suction on them.  We couldn't wait to try these out, so before sol left for work this morning we had a quick play.  First some saliva to help create the seal:


And then I placed one on each nipple and began to twist:


They looked like this:


sol of course wanted them twisted tighter lol ... so I obliged:


The suction pulls the nipple into the chamber of the device, expanding the nipple’s length and width. The suction increases the blood flow to the area, stimulating all the nerve endings, which become even more sensitive than usual. Now I definitely had sol's attention ... in several ways, if you include that hard-on!:


 I instructed him to masturbate while I continued my explorations, twisting further:


I was a bit worried that the little bit of hair around sol's nipples might have broken the seal but it was fine. As sol used his hand to wank:


 I used my hands to try pulling on the devices:


And pulling further:


 Then I tried tapping my fingers hard against each device:

 

As well as tapping sol's balls hard:


It wasn't long before he requested permission to come:


The devices were quickly undone and removed, leaving sol's nipples like this:


By the time he was dressed for work they were almost back to normal:


End result:
  • While we've done cupping before, these little devices are really easy to use and need minimal preparation. 
  • They are easy to attach during play, you can use saliva to seal them and there are no problems with twisting the device, the cap is easy to grip
  • Unlike (for example) clover clamps (which we love) you can control the amount of pressure, just giving pleasure to those who prefer it, but easy to keep twisting the device up to a painful level if desired
  • Once sealed they support themselves which frees your hands up for other things
  • They are easy to clean. 
  • They'd also be okay to travel with, you could put them amongst the shampoo / etc bottles in your toilet bag
  • They fit perfectly on the nipples but we are already thinking about other ways of applying them.
These were really fun. We look forward to using them again :)
 

Sunday, January 15, 2012

When the reality of play beats fantasy (part 1 - sol)

 


It's always a magical day when you can make one of your partner's long term fantasies come true ... and an even better day when he tells you later that the reality was even better than the fantasy!

You might remember we posted some photos of sol's latest construction:


We asked readers if they had any idea of it's function. One reader thought it might be a James Bond torture testicles chair, which was a good idea and indeed it could be used for that. Another emailed to ask if it was another queening stool, and again it can do that.

Time for the big reveal ... in sol's words:
"My latest woodwork project is a stool designed specifically so that Mistress  can pee directly into my mouth, comfortably and with little fuss. "
Pee play has been a part of our D/s relationship for several years. We know it's not for everyone but if it's something that interests you we sincerely encourage you to try it. We wasted a lot of time not communicating clearly about our shared desires.


Here are some of the water sports scenes we've posted about:
Sol wrote about his interest in pee play in that first post:
"For a long time I had been interested in adding "watersports" (specifically drinking Mistress160's pee) to our bdsm repertoire. I had tried dropping ever so subtle hints - so subtle, She says,they were almost nonexistent. Eventually we managed to communicate and She agreed this was something She wanted to try, too...

"As an aside here, one difficulty I (and I think many other submissives) have in communicating our desires is that we want to be "forced" to do something that is taboo and unpleasant. If I could go to my Wife one morning and say "please Ma'am, may I drink your pee ?", then it wouldn't press my buttons. I want the delicious submissive cravings for a situation where She simply pushes me to my knees, says "now don't you dare spill a drop", and pisses in my mouth without me having a say in it at all. Of course in the real world this won't happen unless we talk about what my needs and desires are and how they fit in with Her needs and desires...

"The idea of providing 'toilet service' to my Mistress has been part of my fantasies for almost as long as I can remember, with origins probably reaching back to my almost pre-sexual submissive fantasies of childhood. How thoroughly degrading it would be to drink Her pee, to be Her toilet. How convenient it would be for Her if, on a cold winter's night, instead of having to get out of bed to take a pee, She could just wake me up and have me crawl under the sheets. Or in a dark, near-deserted cinema ... for me to crawl under Her skirt so she doesn't have to miss a minute of the film ... and then to sit with a bladder bursting, and having to ask (and be denied!) permission. Mmmm ... But all things need to begin somewhere ...

"Fantasizing about midnight 'service' under the covers may be well and good, but could turn into a very messy and uncomfortable night changing the bed and airing the mattress if it all goes wrong. We decided that taking a shower together (after She had consumed so many glasses of water that 'performance anxiety' wouldn't be a problem) would be the ideal place to start.

That first scene, our first real attempt, was very powerful for sol:
"One week in August we were staying in a house that had a shower almost big enough to lie down in, and I noticed in the morning that She was a little more bright-eyed than usual. We went in to shower together, and for five minutes or so we enjoyed the warm water, washed each other down with soap, and allowed the steam to build up enough that the room was warm and comfortable. Then She positioned herself so that the water was against her back, grabbed my arms and kissed me deeply, and then pushed me firmly down with a hand on the top of my head, until I was on my knees, with my face level with Her neatly trimmed pussy.

"She spread her legs slightly, and guided my mouth to Her crotch. Out of reflex, I extended my tongue and started to lick, but She stopped me with a tap on the back of my head. I waited while She concentrated, and after a minute or so, started to feel a hot, wet trickle start to hit the tip of my tongue. I had to bend my neck uncomfortably to get my mouth to the right place, but I stretched and pressed, and eventually managed to start drinking Her pee for the first time.

"I was prepared for the taste - bitter, even acrid, a little salty - but wasn't prepared for the way the aftertaste and more subtle scents fill your mouth and nose. Purely as a drink, you could perhaps treat this like cough medicine - it tastes bad but you can do it - but urine is not 'just a drink'. The subtle scents of it bring back memories of badly maintained public toilets, of squalid back alleys, and you are on your knees drinking it warm from the woman you love. Who is holding you to Her crotch with a hand pressed on the back of your head, as She pisses directly into your mouth. Realistically, I probably caught about 1/3 of her stream, some lost as I was finding the right angle, some as I struggled to swallow and catch it at the same time.

"It was powerful. It was profound. When She had finished, She cleaned us up under the shower spray for a few seconds, then turned off the water and helped me to my feet. I was too overcome to stand for a little while, and she had to wrap a towel around me and help me across the hall and into bed. Where we cuddled, and slowly recovered ... and where I found, when I entered her, that she was as wet as I was hard...".
Several years later pee play (usually with a tube sol designed) is quite common in our D/s life:

 

We both enjoy using this but it does have limitations. I'd like to sol to take over now and tell you more about his latest creation:
"One very long term fantasy of mine has been to drink my Mistress' pee. We have done this in practice many times now, but usually through a funnel. While this fulfils many elements of my fantasies and is very arousing, one key element of my long term desires has still been missing: drinking her pee directly from the source.

"We have tried this a few times in the shower, with mixed success. If she stands with her legs slightly apart, and I kneel in front, I can just get my lips to the right place to catch some urine, but most of it escapes. Sometimes I cup my hand below her pussy, catching the stream and directing it into my mouth. More successfully, I sit on the floor of the shower, put my hands behind me to support me, and can get my mouth into the right place to catch most of her stream. It's not very comfortable, though, and it takes some arranging - not something you can do every day.

"My latest woodwork project is a stool designed specifically so that Mistress can pee directly into my mouth, comfortably and with little fuss"
Once sol had finished his woodworking he placed a whole lot of cushions in it so we could get the positioning of his head right:



Like so:


Finally - after I'd drunk a thermos of hot water and had two soft drinks and jumped up and down a bit lol -  it was time to try it out :) We covered the cushions with plastic and then placed a towel on top:


Sol then lay down:


We worked out a signally system as he was obviously not going to be able to talk much during this: one tap with his hands on my thighs for "yes" / "go", two taps for "no" / "stop".

We began ... sol wrote later:
"I lie down looking up. Mistress comes towards me, naked from the waist down, and stands with her legs apart, straddling my body. I start to feel aroused as I see her pussy, exposed by her parted legs. She moves closer to get into position, until she is ready to start sitting down, and I am looking directly upwards at her. Just as her exposed vulva fill my field of vision, I catch the scent of her, a scent that is washed away completely by the shower. Her labia cover my nose as she positions herself far enough forwards for my mouth to catch her pee. My entire sensory world is filled with her pussy, and I'm pinned underneath her, barely able to breathe. Using hand signals, she shifts back and forth until my mouth aligns with her urethra, and I shape my lips to form a seal.

"When she starts to pee, my mouth is quickly filled by the warm, sour,
  slightly salty liquid, and I have to try to swallow without closing my mouth.  It's something I've been practicing, but being right there and *having* to do it gives me a submissive rush. I gulp and gulp, struggling but succeeding in keeping up, until a greater need takes over. Eventually I need to breathe, so I signal (two taps with my hands) and she stops for me to take a breath.

"It's intense. My senses are totally filled. It takes concentration and you
  have to work to keep up. You keep going as long as you can before needing a breath, because you're providing a service, and your own breathing is an inconvenience. And it's taboo, a transgression..."
When I was finished I got up, wiped a few small spots of pee away and looked at sol's enormous erection. "How was that?" I asked. "So much better than my fantasies" he replied. He later wrote of this: 
"desire I have had for thirty years or more, being finally played out in the flesh. The sum of all the parts is better than the dream, because in the dream all you really have is your own feelings, how you think you will feel when it happens, not the scent, the taste, the sensations, and the real live person sharing the experience with you."
I was so delighted everything had gone well. I was also incredibly turned on. I moved the stool away, left one cushion for sol's head and then sat on his face. I masturbated him while his tongue and lips pleasured me. I then got him to take over wanking while I pinched his nipples hard and moved my hips slightly so he was rimming me.

He asked for permission to come - in a rather muffled fashion, as I was sitting on his face - and did so quickly:


You should have seen his huge grin after we'd finished. You should have seen mine!

What a wonderful new item to add to our toys, thank you sol :)


Photos:
Ms160